01/02/2020
My Dad passed away one year ago today. I'm missing him something fierce. I feel like my family did an amazing job pulling together over the holidays, but my grief has felt overwhelming these past few days. I just found something I'd written for him for his 60th birthday, and it made me smile. It seems a fitting tribute to share today. (page 1 of 2)
This I Believe
By Paul Andrew Dreyer Sr.
as imagined by his daughter, Dawn K. Dreyer
I believe that the best Christmas and birthday presents at are good kids. I believe in cheering on your team, not booing the competition (unless the competition is playing dirty against the Hurricanes). I believe in encouraging my kids to believe they can do anything in the world they want to accomplish - no, I believe my kids can do anything they set out to accomplish. I believe no sports injury is all that serious unless there is a bone visible. I believe you should love your job and give it your all. I believe in inspiring others by example. I believe in helping kids do their homework and that understanding the problem is more important than just getting the right answer. I believe that parents who yell at kids at Little League games should go to jail. I believe we live in a patriarchal society but I wish my daughter wouldn't bring it up so often. I believe that "try your best" is the eleventh commandment. I believe you should never listen to anyone who says, "You can't." I believe that kids who grow up being thrown in the air and getting knocked down on the ground in various athletic endeavors learn resilience, not to take themselves too seriously, and to never let the size of the other guy keep them from running toward the goal. I believe I have the best friends in the world. I believe in going to bed early and getting up early; my wife believes in staying up late and getting up late. I believe this difference in our personalities is a key to our successful marriage. I believe in taking my kids out beyond the breakers to look at the giant sea turtle, even if it makes my wife a little nervous. I believe I have a beautiful, creative, and wonderful wife and I am the luckiest guy in the world.