11/24/2025
💙 “It’s Just Stuff” — A Reflection on Loss, Love, and What Truly Matters 💙
In a deeply personal and emotional piece, Cedar County Coroner Danny Leo Green shares a heartfelt reflection on the loss of his son, the quiet grief many families carry, and the way death can both divide and unite us.
Green writes about the invisible community of parents who have lost a child — “the club no one wants to be a member of” — and the painful realities that follow a loved one’s passing, including the struggle over belongings, the memories attached to simple objects, and the importance of relationships over material things.
His story is raw, honest, and full of compassion.
It is a reminder that while possessions may hold memories, the people still with us matter far more than anything they leave behind.
🕊️ “The important thing… is that while belongings and things may bring back memories… the relationships you have with the living here and now are far more valuable. It’s just stuff.” — Danny Leo Green
👉 Read the full reflection on our website:
When my son passed away fifteen years ago, my sister Kathy asked who did I want to give the service? I told her I had no idea because at that time, I had been away from home for over thirty years counting my Marine Corps, Army, and police officer time. She recommended Brent Bland, a