12/15/2022
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We asked grievers: What do you wish people understood about grief, and specifically your grief, during the holidays? For people who lost loved ones, the holidays are full of complex feelings.
We Americans have very strange, and hurtful, societal “rules” around talking about grief, especially around the holidays. In short, the rule is: Don’t.
“I think part of what hurts so much in having our grief ignored is, we feel so isolated in that pain, all the while existing in a cruel ironic hellscape of jingle bells and avoidance where everyone around us is also hurting, missing that person too,” writes Jaclyn Cosgrove, assistant editor of mental health at The Times.
***If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, call 988. The hotline will connect callers with trained mental health counselors. Text “HOME” to 741741 in the U.S. and Canada to reach the Crisis Text Line.***
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📸: Patrick Hruby / Los Angeles Times
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