01/10/2024
🎤I interrupt this regularly scheduled obnoxious, nonsense yet slightly comical social media drama for a divorce saga s**t show update….
🎭When I started doing social media professionally, I had to be willing to put my life out there, the good the bad the UGLY AF I had to get thick skin very quickly, and it actually hasn’t been too difficult. You know we get the occasional trolls 😈👿in the comments but nothing will ever top the 10 years of hell & what I went through 👺 and it’s still goin. I could come on here and apologize for stuff that he’s doing and probably going to continue to do, but I’m not going to because it is what it is and I’m not to blame for his bad behavior or bad life decisions. Now there was a time that I would’ve probably reacted in an outrage 🤬 when he was pulling his typical games but if he’s not getting a reaction out of me he has to do something in order to try to get one. It’s funny, he didn’t pay me this much attention when I was with him😂😂😂And now he refuses to take down any of my photos 📸from his sites, me, the women he called ugly on a daily basis and now he wants to parade my photos around like “ hey look, this is my wife” 🙄 It’s similar to when he would NEVER hug me or hold my hand for 10 years unless we were going out to a party, out to a bar or night club and then he would grab my hand just as we were about to walk in the door….Like a dog 🐩 marking his territory is how it use to make me feel but as soon as the evening was over I was tossed to the side like a disposble human with no worth at all. He didnt want me then and he doesn’t want me now, but he doesn’t want anyone else to have me either (although he moved in 🏠with a much older👵🏼 & less attractive women in Memphis. sorry not sorry) so yes technically on a piece of paper for another couple weeks i am his “wife” but the fact is I was never his wife in the way I deserved. I was even treated with any amount of human decency. So with that said I don’t want to go any further into this post because this is what he wants this is what fills his power bank. So I’m gonna just let it sit right there and I’ve decided if he needs attention then let him get his attention. I’m just gonna step over it like it doesn’t exist. Kinda like he did to me for 10 years except usually he wasn’t kind enough to actually step over me, but instead right on me. 🦶🏻🦶🏻So as much as we all wanna fight back 🤺 that’s his game. So let’s just not engage & let him be who he is 👺and sadly with him good attention, bad attention he doesn’t care as long as he’s getting my attention and so what do you say we just make this post the only bit of attention that he got off of his total s**t 💩show of games from the last two weeks. And the next time we mention his existence let’s make it because of the celebration 🎉 of my long awaited divorce being finalized. So thats it, end of story.
I had an amazing week , a near perfect day and a much needed low key lazy evening and I’m gonna end it by laughing at the madness of it all and being so very grateful that I’m here to see another day and fall even more in love with my new normal.
Thank you to all of you for the insane amount of DM’s and for reaching out to make sure I was ok. I’m better than ok…. I’ve got the most amazing supporters, followers, family & friends who have my back. And I love you all so big! XOXOTami 🩷
PS before any of you ask….yes I was drunk in Vegas 🎰🍸🍹🥂the night I married him. 👰💒 (I couldn’t resist that last dig, 🎭the end)
