11/24/2025
Our Unseen Dads - Chris Rothwell
Chris shares his perspective on identity, community, and the challenges of balancing his various roles. He discusses his father, describing him as a smart, disciplined, and hardworking former federal law enforcement officer who instilled "old school values" like high standards and being a provider. Chris learned "what to do," but also "some things not to do," realizing his father struggled with working on his own challenges. This led Rothwell to emphasize the importance of self-care and investing in his own health for his family's sake.
When discussing what he teaches his daughters, he focuses on those positive "old school values" learned from his father, such as hard work, discipline, service, and the value of education.
Rothwell identifies the "unique joys" of being a Black dad, highlighting the happiness of creating a positive, loving environment for his daughters that allows them to grow without the stress he experienced as a child. His "greatest superpower" is resilience, especially given the challenges he's faced, including losing his mother at age 18.
Chris shares his perspective on identity, community, and the challenges of balancing his various roles. He discusses his father, describing him as a smart, d...