08/17/2026
Welcome to the end of "Self-employment: Year One"
{I'm writing this on Saturday afternoon while preparing for Millennial Night and it feels so strange to be scheduling such an in-depth post for the future}
I've been doing the DJ thing full-time for a year now, and I feel like there's some housekeeping in order. I've been super quiet on this page in 2026 for a ton of different reasons.
The number one reason being that I gloriously fumbled a wedding booking at the end of last year during the holiday season. It is the ONLY business interaction (as a DJ) where I have let a customer/potential customer down.
The entire issue was lack of communication on my end.
The bride was 100% right to be upset. I had a strong realization in the process of handling, or mishandling, that situation...
I am terrible at administrative work. I always thought that I just didn't like that kind of thing. Well, maybe I don't like it because I suck at it.
As the owner/operator of a small business, administrative work is absolutely mission critical. Effectively communicating needs and work status, keeping deadlines, managing multiple projects in various states of completion, etc... All of these things are absolute nightmares for me.
NO ONE CARES AND NO ONE SHOULD
We all have difficulties and weaknesses. It isn't your job to pat me on the back and say "there, there."
What I'm getting at is that my focus and dedication this year has been on trying to identify said weaknesses and figure out practical solutions that I can implement in real-world situations.
This is not a post with answers. I probably should've put that at the top. I am actively choosing not to. Oh well. If you're still here, I assume it's because you actually care about me as either a person or an entertainer. Thank you. I love you. I'm trying really really hard, I promise.
I have at least two potential long-term DJ announcements that are in the works, but I can't really talk about them online until they get finalized. They might be some of the first real sproutlings of seeds that I have been planting for the last 10 years.
Sorry if this was sprawling and hard to follow. All the things I wanted to say in this would fill 10 pages.
"Have faith in me... There are things that I've seen you won't believe