
09/26/2025
When Jesse started Pickleball, I think our entire community knew how hard it was on me. I felt like he was building a life outside of me. His time was being taken up, sometimes in excessive amounts, by his new hobby (ie: addiction đ). [save & share with your spouse.]
He was passionate and excited, but my fear of him growing apart from me, or being gone more often, consumed me.
But as I began to step back, I saw how beneficial it was for him. Not only for his mental health, he was also building a community of godly men around him.
He was also relieving stress and building connections for his business. And most importantly, it brought him JOY. The more I got outside of myself, the more I saw the good it brought to his life.
And as I chose to see it that way, I began to celebrate it with him instead of fearing it.
Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, âThere is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.â
When we allow space for each otherâs growth, we donât âloseâ each other, we create more to bring back into our marriage. đ€