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The Long Way HomeWhat follows is a true account of events that unfolded this evening of December 26, 2025.The car ahead ...
12/27/2025

The Long Way Home

What follows is a true account of events that unfolded this evening of December 26, 2025.

The car ahead of us drifted left, just enough to catch my eye.

At first it looked like distraction, a tire grazing the white line, a small mistake waiting for correction. Then the engine seemed to surge. I never saw brake lights. The car did not slow. It leaned into the error, crossed oncoming traffic in a blur of motion, jumped the curb, and vanished over the edge of an Ozark hillside so steep it swallowed the whole car and sound at once.

I hit the brakes hard enough to jolt the grandkid quiet. My wife’s breath caught. Someone asked a question that never reached the end of the sentence.

My phone was already in my hand. “911,” I said, my voice steady in a way that surprised me as I pulled up to the drop off. Below us, a horn began to scream. Many long blasts, raw and panicked, echoing up through cedar and rock like a wound crying out.

My wife leaned forward, bracing herself against the guardrail. “It’s overturned,” she said.

The word settled into my chest like a stone.

I told the dispatcher what I feared and started down the hill. Gravel slid under my shoes. Brush tore at my legs. The slope fought every step, sharp with loose rock and winter-bare roots. The car lay sideways against the hillside, metal folded and torn, glass shattered except for the windshield, which held in a spiderweb of cracks, safety film stretched tight as skin pulled over bone.

My daughter was already there, kneeling beside the wreck, speaking gently through the broken window. Inside sat an elderly man, folded by gravity, eyes unfocused, breath shallow. I leaned close enough for him to hear me.

“Help is coming,” I said. “Sit tight. You’re not alone.”

He did not answer. His hand rested against the glass. A dark wedding band caught my notice, flashed once, then dulled as my mind shifted.

Syd and I prayed where we stood. Words shaped by urgency, stripped of polish I am sure. Protection. Mercy. Strength for bones and organs that should have failed and somehow had not. The hill absorbed our voices, but prayer does not require volume. It requires presence.

I climbed back up to flag the emergency vehicles. The hill resisted me like a living thing. My calves burned. My hands grabbed at scrub oak and exposed roots. Each step scraped and slipped until I hauled myself over the edge, breath loud, heart pounding.

Sirens were already threading through traffic. Red and blue lights cut across the trees and concrete. EMTs moved with fast, practiced precision. A saw whined to life. Commands bounced between uniforms.

That is when I noticed the woman standing near the guardrail.

She stood a few steps back from the concrete wall, arms wrapped tight around her middle, body rocking slightly, as if the ground beneath her had not finished moving. Her eyes stayed fixed on the place where the car had flown past her moments earlier.

She told me she had been sitting on that wall. The car came at her without warning. She saw the driver’s face through the windshield. Wide eyes. Terror locked in place. A fraction of a second stretched thin enough to see every detail. She stepped back just in time.

Her body stood upright. Her hands shook hard enough to rattle the zipper of her coat.

I asked her name. I will leave it here, unnamed, as she stood then, a soul still vibrating from the nearness of death. I asked if she believed in God. She nodded quickly, as if agreement itself might anchor her.

“I’m going to pray for you,” I said.

Right there. Right then. Words fell quietly, steady and close. Her breathing slowed. Her shoulders dropped. The shaking softened, not gone, but gentler, like wind easing after a hard gust.

She worried about getting home. I told her Joy and I would take her. She hesitated, then nodded and sat down again as the EMT took her blood pressure.

The hillside became a place of motion and sound. Steel screamed as it gave way. Radios crackled. Boots slid on rock. I asked one of the officers for the driver’s name. I wanted to visit him later. Call him something more personal than “the man in the wreck.” They could not tell me. That was fine. God keeps names long before we ever learn them.

I heard the EMTs talking, voices tight with calculation. How to get a board up that hill. How to lift a body that should not be moved. How to prepare for what age and gravity usually demand.

Then another voice cut through, edged with disbelief.

“He’s standing.”

I turned in time to see them throw a rope down the hill. Two men braced themselves at the top. The elderly driver reached up, grasped the rope, and began to climb. Step by careful step. Bent. Shaken. Alive beyond expectation. His shoes scraped against rock. His hands clenched tight. He walked up that hill under his own power, assisted, upright, stubbornly present.

My heart hammered. I stood there watching mercy take a shape I did not expect.

They loaded him into the ambulance and headed toward Springfield, lights flashing against the trees. The horn had finally gone silent.

We drove.

The woman in the back seat stared out the window, hands tucked into the sleeves of her coat. Cigarette smoke clung faintly to her clothes, mixed with something sweet and cheap, vanilla trying to cover years of wear.

She spoke in pieces at first. Addiction. Alcohol. Drugs that promised escape and delivered chains. A childhood shaped by harm. Family ties severed clean by pain. A boyfriend behind bars. Each sentence came out flat, practiced, as if she had learned how to survive by telling her story without feeling it.

Then the questions started. They sounded urgent. Why did this happen. Why did she live. Why did I stop. Why did we meet.

I pulled the car over.

Gravel crunched under the tires. I turned in my seat and looked at her. Her eyes finally left the road and met mine. They held fear and something else beneath it. Hope, maybe, handled carefully.

I spoke of Christ as a living Savior who steps into wreckage. As a Person who meets people when metal is twisted and hearts are split open. I spoke of the cross as rescue. Of grace that runs toward broken people instead of away from them. Of repentance as a turning that leads somewhere solid. Of faith as trust placed in One who already knows the whole story and still calls.

The car sat quiet. Her hands stopped shaking. She listened, really listened, as if every word carried weight.

“This doesn’t feel like an accident,” she said, her voice barely above a whisper.

“I agree,” I told her.

The road carried us the rest of the way. When we reached her place, she lingered at the door, hand resting on the handle. She said she would think about what she had heard. Joy gave her my number.

Joy and I sat there for a moment after she went inside. The echo of the horn still rang in my ears. The image of an old man climbing a hill replayed behind my eyes.

God shows up along roadsides. He moves through twisted metal and frightened prayers. He places people where they need to be, sometimes at the edge of a steep hill, sometimes in the back seat of a car, sometimes both.

Tomorrow, I will carry a Bible to a doorstep. Gravel will crunch under my boots. A porch light will spill weak yellow onto winter ground. A door will open. Words will be spoken again.

Tonight reminded me that obedience often arrives as interruption, that calling comes without warning, that mercy takes flesh in ordinary places. The story did not end when the ambulance disappeared down the road. It continues, one step at a time, written by a God who never wastes a moment and never misses His mark.

12/26/2025

Nobody warns you about the letdown that comes after Christmas.

I carry so much anticipation into it every year.

The meals are perfect in my head.
The gifts land just right.
The moments feel fuller than real life usually allows.

Then Christmas comes.

Something’s burned.
Someone’s sick.
The kids bicker.

And even when it’s good, it still isn’t quite enough.

That’s when it hits me.

Christmas was never meant to satisfy me completely.

That quiet disappointment isn’t ingratitude.
It’s longing.

God’s people have always lived this way.
Enjoying good gifts while waiting for something better.

They waited for the Messiah.

And now we wait again.

Not for a better holiday.
For Christ to return and make all things new.

12/26/2025

This Sunday we begin preaching through Zechariah.
I’m eager to walk this book with our church.

12/25/2025

Our Hearts Burned Within Us
Luke 24:32 - Christmas Eve Devotion

*The following meditation employs poetic license, imagining a single eyewitness whose memories are shaped by Scripture and the testimony of the early church.

Close-up of weathered wood grain in low light, emphasizing cracks and texture that evoke weight, memory, and reflection.

The first time I saw Him, I was holding a cedar plank steady while my father drove a wedge.

Bethlehem had been crushed flat by bodies that week. Sweat and wool and dust clung to the streets. Donkeys stamped. Men argued over space and coins. We had been hired to shore up a back wall behind an inn where stones had loosened under the press of travelers. I braced the plank while my father struck iron. Cedar groaned. The board shuddered against my palms.

Then the sound came from the stable behind the wall.

A newborn’s cry. Thin. Sharp. Alive.

It altered the street. Men paused mid-sentence. A woman covered her mouth. Even the innkeeper fell silent. The sound cut through noise the way a blade cuts rope.

My father wiped his hands on his tunic and nodded toward the stable. “They put them back there,” he said. “No room.”

I went for water and drifted closer. The door hung crooked. A lantern threw weak light against rough boards. I smelled hay and animal heat. Inside, the mother breathed slow and deep, the way women do after pain has passed but strength has not returned. She held the child close, hands steady, practiced. The baby’s face shone wet in the light, eyes clenched, mouth working.

He was ordinary. Small. Helpless.

Yet the air around Him felt held.

A man stood nearby, quiet, grateful. “Thank You,” he said, lifting his voice upward, not toward her.

Outside, shepherds ran through the alley speaking words. They spoke of light in the fields and a message placed in their mouths like fire. A Savior. A Christ. A promise fulfilled. They handled the news carefully, as though it might burn them.

I went back to my work, but the plank felt different in my hands. Cedar holds warmth. I wondered what this child’s hands would hold one day.

The week passed. The crowds thinned. We finished the wall. Life narrowed again.

Years took their turn. I learned my trade. I learned how weight travels through wood. I learned how joints fail. I learned how a structure can look sound and still be breaking where no one sees.

Rumors reached us later. Soldiers. Infants. Blood in Bethlehem. I lay awake nights and saw that child’s face under the lantern. I asked what kind of king draws swords toward cradles.

Thirty years after the stable, I stood on a hill outside Jerusalem and watched Him die.

I stood on Golgotha longer than I planned.

A builder notices things even when he wants his eyes to close. The ground was wrong there. Too uneven. The holes dug in haste, shallow in places, deeper than needed in others. The uprights were rough, sap still clinging where bark had been stripped fast. Rome did not wait for the wood to dry.

The crossbeam lay nearby, scarred from being dragged. I knew the angle of the cut. The notch was shallow, practical, made to seat quickly without fuss. My fingers curled before I knew why.

There had been a summons that morning. Short words. No explanation. Timber stacked behind the fortress. A soldier pointed and said what was needed. Three frames. Tall. Able to bear weight.

Able to bear weight.

I remembered choosing that beam because the grain ran straight enough to hold without bowing. I remembered shaving the edge where it would sit against a man’s shoulders. I remembered drilling the holes carefully, not out of mercy, but so the wood would not split when iron struck.

Work done well. Work done quickly.

The hammer sounded.

The ring of iron on iron traveled clean. Through the handle. Into the nail. Into the wood. I felt it in my wrists as if I were holding the tool. The brief resistance. The yielding. The moment when the nail found home.

His body tightened. He lifted Himself to breathe, then fell back against the beam. Blood followed the grain as though it knew the path.

Above Him, the sign declared a title.

King.

I had seen those eyes before. Under lamplight. Years ago. Still then. Still now. They looked out from a face pulled tight with pain, yet the gaze did not scatter. When He spoke, the words held together.

“Father, forgive them.”

The prayer did something to the air. Psalm words rose from places long buried. They pierced my hands and my feet. They divide my garments among them.

At the foot of the cross, soldiers bent to their game.

Nothing strained. The joint held. The beam carried exactly what it was asked to carry.

He spoke again, voice torn thin. “My God, my God.”

The opening of Psalm 22, drawn out of a body failing under weight. He lifted Himself once more, then released His breath.

The upright shuddered in the hole. Dust slid from the sides. The structure settled.

I stepped back and stared at the wood, at the grain I had studied, the surface my hands had smoothed. I had built tables meant to gather families. Doorframes meant to hold homes steady. Roofs meant to keep weather out.

This work stood differently.

The earth shifted. Stone cracked somewhere below. Voices faltered. I tasted iron and dust and something bitter behind them both.

I did not leave at once.

That night, I found my way to the room where His followers gathered. The air was thick with fear and oil smoke. Men whispered. Women pressed their hands together. Grief sat heavy.

Then the door opened.

Two travelers came in, breathless, eyes lit with something that did not belong to despair. I recognized one of them. Cleopas. A man who worked with his hands. A man who did not waste words.

“He walked with us,” he said.

“Who?” someone asked.

Cleopas swallowed. His wife stood beside him, her face flushed, her voice unsteady. “He walked with us on the road. We talked. We argued. We replayed everything. We did not recognize Him.”

She drew breath. “Then He began with Moses. He moved through the prophets. He took the words we thought we knew and opened them.”

Opened.

I knew opening. A hinge turns. A latch gives. Air moves. Light enters.

“He showed us that the Messiah must suffer and then enter His glory,” Cleopas said. “He brought the Scriptures onto the road with us.”

His wife pressed her palm to her chest. “Something happened while He spoke. We felt it.”

“What?” someone asked.

“Our hearts burned within us.”

The room shifted. I felt it answer inside me, a warmth deep in the chest, steady and unmistakable. This was not stirred sentiment. This was recognition. Understanding lit with affection.

Cleopas continued. “We begged Him to stay. Evening had come. He sat at our table. He took bread.”

Bread.

I saw the stable again. Mary’s hands. Joseph’s quiet gratitude. A child needing to be fed.

“He blessed it,” Cleopas said. “He broke it.”

Broke.

I knew breaking. Wood snaps. Beams fail. Bones crack. Hearts split. Yet this breaking revealed rather than ruined.

“When He broke it,” his wife said, “our eyes opened.”

Opened again.

Christ present. Christ speaking. Christ opening the Scriptures. Christ known in broken bread.

They had walked seven miles under grief. They ran seven miles back under fire. Feet struck stone. Lungs burned. Darkness pressed close. They ran because when Christ opens the Scriptures, a man forgets himself.

That was the result. Self-forgetful witness. Breath spent on testimony. Doors pounded. Friends woken. News spoken while voices still shook.

He is alive.

The room filled with voices. Someone said He appeared to Simon. Another said He stood among them. Fear loosened. Hope straightened its back.

I sat against the wall and felt the warmth spread, steady now, the way a fire takes once the wood is dry.

I understood what I had missed for years. I had heard texts explained. I had learned measurements and meanings. Understanding matters. A beam cut wrong collapses.

Yet a man can master words and remain untouched by the God who speaks them.

That kind of faith cannot stand at Golgotha. It cannot run in the dark.

True encounter reaches deeper. Mind engaged. Will stirred. Affection awakened. A yes rising from the core that sends a man moving.

I wanted more than lessons. I wanted dealings. I wanted the voice behind the voice.

As the room quieted, someone prayed. Simple words. Under them, I sensed another sound. Quiet. Weighty. A voice carried by still air. A gentle silence.

That is how He first came to me years ago. No sound. No words. Yet everything changed. And I see now that He does not stop speaking after the first encounter.

Repenting and believing. Sorrow and relief. Again and again. A life shaped by a Christ who opens Scripture and warms hearts.

This is my prayer on this Christmas Eve.

Deliver us from faith that ends with explanation. Deliver us from words without warmth. Open the Scriptures to us until they reach bone and marrow. Give us hearts that burn and feet that move. Let us hear Your voice beneath every voice.

And when we step back into the night, let us carry a fire we did not make.

12/25/2025

Christmas isn't the same for everyone.

Saw this on Twitter...so true.

12/23/2025

Preparing a candlelight message for Christmas Eve. Less glow. More glory. Just the gospel.

Thirty-three years ago today, God gave me one of His greatest gifts. He gave me Joy.Through every season, easy and hard,...
12/19/2025

Thirty-three years ago today, God gave me one of His greatest gifts. He gave me Joy.

Through every season, easy and hard, she has been a steady grace in my life. Faithful. Strong. Prayerful. A true partner in marriage, ministry, and life.

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” That has been my story for thirty-three years.

Joy, I am grateful, still in awe, and still in love. To God be the glory for every year He has given us.

12/19/2025

AI isn’t just forcing a reckoning.
It’s pushing us back to what actually lasts.

When everything can be faked, people will look for real connection, not what looks good on a screen.

That’s in-person church. Christ made visible through known lives.

12/18/2025

The church has never been louder.

Sermons streamed.
Podcasts everywhere.
Clips, threads, livestreams, platforms.

The world has never heard us more.

And yet.

I don’t think we’ve ever been more divided.
Or more distracted.
Or more ineffective.

We have truth.
We can explain it.
Defend it.
Broadcast it.

What we’re missing is the part Jesus said must come first.

Not just truth.

Spirit and truth.

Volume isn’t power.

Presence is.

12/17/2025

It said "F— YOU!"

The sign on the door was huge.

So big we could read it from the driveway.

A deacon and I were delivering Angel Tree gifts from our church.

Kids’ Christmas presents.

I felt my chest tighten.

Part of me wanted to turn around and call it “not our problem.”

But no one answered the door.

So we left the gifts on the porch and walked back to the truck.

And all I could think about was the kids inside.

They didn’t choose that sign.

They just live under it.

That’s when it hit me.

Christmas didn’t enter the world through friendly doors.

It entered through rejection.

Jesus was born in a place that had no room for Him.

And He still comes close to homes that act like they don’t want Him.

That’s what Emmanuel means.

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