07/31/2025
Arabella Griffith Barlow was laid to rest on this date in 1864. She was just 40 years old.
The devoted wife of Union General Francis Channing Barlow, Arabella answered her country’s call in her own way—through service in the U.S. Sanitary Commission. It was a role born not only of patriotic duty, but of love, allowing her to remain close to her husband amid the turmoil of war.
Arabella’s presence near the battlefield proved crucial during some of the war’s darkest hours. In the bloody clashes at Antietam and Gettysburg, General Barlow was gravely wounded—both times believed to be mortally so. Yet it was Arabella’s tireless, tender care that saved him. Her love and devotion were his salvation.
In a tragic turn of fate, though both wounds were feared fatal, it was Arabella—not her husband—who gave her life for the cause. Weakened by months of unrelenting service under harrowing conditions, she contracted typhoid fever while nursing soldiers - sick, wounded and dying. She died on July 27, 1864, having given everything—mind, heart, and body—to those in need.
Her sacrifice was quiet, but no less heroic.