12/18/2025
We are a dinner table family.
When Matt and I were in our early 20's we decided that in our family, we will eat at the dinner table. Every. Night.
I am not sure why we made this decision but we have stuck to it even before having kids.
We made a lot of decisions back then about the type of family we will be. Some we have stuck to like the dinner table decision, and others we aren't so rigid on... like the "no walking the house around in underwear" rule that I unilaterally decided ONLY applied to Matt. Sorry not sorry. Sometimes you just gotta run around in your underwear.
I don't make the rules, I just make the dinners. Okay, Okay... I totally make the rules and I also decided that that one didn't apply to me.
I am the Queen of Arbitrary Rules afterall.
I think a key to being a dinner table family is the quality time you spend with your kids while eating meals together. And if you think this is me saying I am doing this whole dinner table family thing perfectly... OH BOY! You would be sorely mistaken.
I need to do better.
I need to put the screens down.
I need to be more present.
This is something I am working on.
I find myself stuck to my phone more than I would like lately, and the dinner table is one area I need to make a no phone zone. My kids deserve a present mom. Someone who is not just there physically at the table with them but mentally present as well.
Is this something you need to work on?
Is this something you are super successful with? If so leave any helpful tips in the comments for those of us who need to stop being phone zombies at the dinner table!