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X Movie, Greendale, WI (2026)

05/27/2026

AITA for not wanting to be a guardian for a disabled family member?

Long story short: when I was 10 my grandparents adopted three girls from an impoverished country and brought them to the states. My parents felt a bit slighted, because they then chose to ignore anything my siblings and I did, and never took an active interest in lives, but that is moot point.

Fast forward to now, I'm 31, wife is 32. We have decided to not have children of our. My grandfather is approaching 80 years old and the discussions has come up as who is going to take guardianship of the two girls who have disabilities that require full time caretaking. First and foremost my uncle and my father are the first in line, but as they age the responsibility falls to my siblings and I. In these discussions I have been extremely adamant that I do not want to be held responsible for an adult with the capacity of a child when I don't want children of my own. This has met some obvious ire from my family, denoting my wife and I as selfish, evil people.

I don't really know the girls my grandparents adopted well, but I harbor no ill will toward them, just don't want to bear the burden of someone else's good intentions. Am I being selfish or is my family setting unreasonable expectations?

05/27/2026

AITA for staying with my mom after finding out that my dad and stepmom have been splitting my birthday/Christmas money with my sister?

My (f14) dad and stepmom adopted Maria (9f) like 4 years ago. My grandparents on my dad's side never really liked her and my my dad hasn't let us see them after something happened like 3 years ago.

Every year for our birthdays and Christmas, my grandparents would send us each $150. They sent the check, my dad would cash it, and put the money in a card for us to open with the rest of our presents.

My birthday was 2 weeks ago and I opened the check from my grandparents and saw that it was actually $300. I asked my dad and stepmom why I was only getting half and they said that my grandparents never sent anything for my sister so they saved half to give to her on her birthday and gave her half on Christmas.

I know it was kinda mean but I yelled at my dad, stepmom, and sister for taking my money and I called my mom to pick me up. I haven't talked to any of them since except to tell my dad I don't want to see my stepmom or sister for a while and that I want to live with my mom.

I was telling my friends about it and they said I was kinda being a b__ch to my sister so I wanted to know if I was the a__hole

05/26/2026

Teen Outs Stepbrother’s Lie, Sparks Parents’ Fight

(throw away for obvs reason, on mobile, please read everything before commenting, thanks) So me (15F) and my stepbrother (17M) have never really got on. My mother married his dad when I was 11 and we just never bonded, my mom often tried to encourage us to bond but he never tried. His dad acted like he was perfect because he always got better grades than me, was better at sports, had 'better' friends.

And stuff, he was good to my mom and me but it was clear that his son was super important to him. And it was annoying how much he did for my stepbrother. Well, I found out that he wasn't so perfect, he had been telling our parents that his band practice was being extended by an hour, but I found out that it wasn't true.

He had been hanging out with his bandmates and often going home and making out and stuff with one of them, who was a guy. I collected all the evidence I could and left it on the table for our parents to find. It was stuff like pictures of him going out, or some screenshots from his friends' stories.

Well, they found it and they were mad. They called him down and he get in serious trouble for lying to them. After he was grounded and sent up to his room I heard my mom admit to his dad that she knew he had been lying and sneaking off to see someone but she thought it was a girl and was mad that she felt lied to.

This lead to an argument between them as he misread it as homophobia rather than her feeling tricked and lied to when she did him a favour by letting it slide. The argument got so bad that he sent my mom to sleep in the guest room and then went behind her back and ungrounded his son after they had a talk. I feel so bad now that this has caused a fight between my mom and him.

My mom has reassured me that I did the right thing, but I can't stop thinking how it's my fault that she's been kicked out of her bedroom. did I mess up? AITA?

05/26/2026

A Mother Keeps Her Weekends Child-Free, Leaving Her Kids’ Wishes Ignored And Family Appalled

My ex husband and I share custody of our 10 year old daughter and 12 year old son. We have a 2-2-3 schedule which usually looks like I have the kids Friday after school and then he gets them Monday after school. I get them back Wednesday after school and then he gets them Friday after school and then the week flip flops. We've done this since our divorce 5 years ago and it works well. I'm a nurse in the OR so I schedule my shifts for the days during the week when they are with their dad and my one call weekend every 6 weeks is a weekend they are with their dad.

Recently, the kids said they want to try splitting up on the weekends, so instead of both of them being with one us during the weekend, one will go with dad and one will be with me. My son said he would make sure he was with me on call weekends because he can stay by himself if I have to get called in or can hang out at the hospital until I'm done. My ex is on board with this because he says it will allow us to spend one on one time with the kids and will allow the kids a break from each other (they squabble occasionally and annoy one another). While they have a point- sometimes it is hard to not feel like you are disappointing one by trying to accommodate the other, I do not want to give up my free weekends. It took me a few months to get used to not having my kids all the time after the divorce but now my weekends without them are filled with activities or travel. My ex agreed if there was a weekend trip I wanted to take he would be fine having both the kids that weekend but I honestly don't want to have to take his schedule into consideration when planning my trips, and sometimes they are spontaneous trips.

I was talking to my family about this at breakfast this morning and they are all kind of appalled by me not wanting to do this. My sister pointed out that if I was still married, then I wouldn't have all the child free time I have now and many mothers don't get a break from their kids like I do. My mom said she can't believe I'd deny my children quality time with their parents for selfish reasons like not wanting to give up my weekends. My SIL seemed to understand where I was coming from but said that she would still do it and just incorporate the child into whatever I was doing and pointed out my daughter would love to go on the NYC shopping trip I had planned for December and my son would happily join me for my Saturday morning spin classes. I considered that but my SIL loves taking her kids everywhere so I don't know that she is aware of how nice it is to just be an adult without the responsibility of a child wherever you go. They were really making me feel like an a__hole though. AITA?

05/26/2026

AITA for not taking daughter’s stepsister to Europe on my dime?

Throwaway because my ex knows my Reddit handle. Here’s the background.

I was formerly married to “Steve” and we had a daughter, “Rebecca.” When Rebecca was six, Steve left me for “Carrie,” the mom of one of Rebecca’s school friends, “Lisa.” Steve married Carrie and they now have two kids of their own. I got remarried to “Joe,” who had no kids. Steve and I share custody of Rebecca and Carrie has full custody of Lisa, so the girls live together half of the time. Rebecca, who is now 14, loves her siblings but doesn’t really like Lisa very much. They have little in common and Rebecca says that Lisa is frequently rude to her and her friends.

Joe and I both work full time and are comfortable, although not wealthy. Carrie is a SAHM who gets no child support from her ex and she and Steve can afford the basics but don’t have a lot of extra money for nonessentials. Joe and I have been saving for a few years and now have enough money to take Rebecca to Italy, a place she has always wanted to visit. We are tentatively planning the trip for next spring.

Rebecca was extremely excited to hear about the trip and mentioned it when she was Steve’s last week. Long story short, I got an e-mail from Steve and Carrie insisting that we also take Lisa on the trip. They said they are “basically sisters” and that it’s not fair for Rebecca to get to go if Lisa can’t. They also said flat out that they could scrape together the money for a plane ticket but not much else, so they expect Joe and me, who are “childless,” to cover Lisa’s hotel and incidental expenses.

I asked Rebecca if she wanted Lisa to come, and she said absolutely not. I emailed Steve back and said that I was sorry, but that I wasn’t prepared to take Lisa and that was that. Carrie sent back an email calling me cruel and selfish, and saying that it wasn’t Lisa’s fault that her parents didn’t have as much money as Joe and I. She said she had looked at pricing and it wouldn’t cost us “that much extra” to bring Lisa along. When it became clear that I wasn’t going to relent, Steve called his parents, who consider Lisa one of their grandkids, and they are now also pressuring me to take Lisa with us and offering to “chip in some money” to defray the extra costs.

Given what they are prepared to contribute, Joe and I figure it would cost us between $500 and $1000 extra to bring Lisa on the trip. To be honest, we could probably afford it, but Rebecca doesn’t want her to go, and frankly I don’t see why Joe and I should be expected to take her. AITA?

05/26/2026

AITAH for cashing out, enjoying life, and not giving anything to daughter?

Burner acc because too much personal on the main.

I(f57) lost my husband of 25 years last year. We have a daughter(f24) who's married for 2 years. My son passed away after her marriage and it has been hell ever since. Our relationship with daughter was very good and without any incidents before her marriage. She was sweet and loving, and was a great daughter overall. She got married to the man of her choice(SIL: son in law). After that it has all been downhill. She stopped coming to our house, stopped responding to our texts and calls, going almost NC.

We weren't rich, although my husband had a lot of assests, they haven't been liquidated. When he died, he didn't leave a will, because it was so unexpected. After his death, my dear daughter didn't even attend his funeral, nor in any other functions. She didn't even call to ask how i was. Barely 6 months after my hubby's passing she and sil barged into our house and brought with them a lawyer, who told me to sign on some documents, and a blank sheet. I know the legal processes and am not ignorant, i asked her what was in that docs. Idk what i did, but here she was, demanding me to sign some unknown docs and a blank sheet and not answering any questions.

I asked the lawyer what it was about, he said it was for transferring all the assets in her and sil's name. I said no. Here it got violent, she attacked me and i had to scream for help. I didn't call the cops but told her to get out before i did. She was adamant about me signing and tried to take my thumb impression. At this point my neighbors had come over and had witnessed pretty much the last part of forcing. My neighbor, bless his heart physically kicked them out.

After this i was shaken and very hurt. I don't know what i did and i was honestly scared for my life. She kept sending me messages, tho not threatening cause maybe her lawyer told her so. She kept on sending sweet messages, thanking me for making her the beneficiary, transferring all assets to her etc. I was disgusted.

A week of harrasment later, i decided i had enough, i wanted out. So i met my lawyer, he said since there was no will, i was the sole owner of all assets and could do as i wish. Long story short, i sold everything, made 8 figures, bought a new house in a place I'd always wanted to be, far from everyone. Now i plan to enjoy the rest of my life travelling, and generally doing things i haven't been able to do, but which I've always wanted to do.

I recently heard through the gossip vine that my daughter tried to start litigation against me shortly after i sold and left but it fell through, as everything was in my name now. She now wants to meet me and is pressuring her lackeys to contact me and make me meet her. I said no. I don't understand why she did that, because it was all going to be hers anyway. They don't know where i am presently, and I'd prefer to keep it that way. I'm NC with her and sil, and don't have social media except reddit.

AITA?

Edit: Amount is not in dollars, if converted it would come around lower 7 figures

Edit 2: No I'm not from USA

Edit 3: English is not my first language

05/26/2026

AITA for not convincing my daughter to give bone marrow to her brother?

Long story short, my ex wife and I were married for 7 years. We split up because she had mental health issues that led her to repeatedly cheat on me with a coworker. I got full custody of our daughter because my ex wife tried to kidnap her and drive into a ditch whilst i__oxicated. My ex wife has never paid the court mandated child support and I never pursued it because I make a significant amount of money at my job and she is unemployed.

We split 11 years ago and our daughter is now 17. My ex-wife made no attempt to stay in contact, she got with the guy she had been seeing and they had a son together shortly after we divorced.

About 3 months ago my ex wife contacted me to say that my daughter wasn't actually mine, she was the product of the affair with the guy she is now married to and that my daughter needed to donate bone marrow to her "brother". I refused.

She contacted our daughter by showing up at school and when our daughter refused to talk to her(she is unhappy that after all this time her mum only shows up when she wants something), my ex wife escalated to screaming at her about being "ungrateful for being alive".

Our daughter came home very upset and broke down about how upset she was that her mum never reached out to her after the split and how now the only reason she's contacted us is because she needs something. As a result of how upset she was ive gotten legal advice. My ex wife is having a meltdown over FB because I wont "force" our daughter to talk to her or donate bone marrow.

AITA here?

05/25/2026

AITA for saying that I will support my son's children but not his widow?

My son divorced his wife of ten years to get together with their nanny. I told him that he was making a mistake but that he was an adult and could make his own decisions.

He became a s__tty father to his children. I wish I could say differently but there it is. I did the best I could to ensure that my grandchildren knew they were loved and part of a family. My ex daughter-in-law also remained. We had known her for fourteen years and she was always kind and friendly with us.

We used the money we were going to leave to our son and set up educational funds and a trust fund for his children he was neglecting.

My son had two children with his new wife. She always held it against us that we told him that she was a mistake. We didn't get to see them very much. She didn't want them around his older children. She didn't want to be around his first wife. It never ended.

My son passed away last year. He left her a life insurance policy and a lot of debt. She was a stay at home mom and her only job previously was being a nanny. And I'm not sure she would get a good reference from her previous employer.

She used the life insurance to pay off all of their debts including the mortgage on their home. But now she has started to run through the savings she had.

She came over, with the kids, to see if we would give her money from our son's inheritance. We told her that it was spoken for. We said that we could help her out with stuff for the kids but that she would need to get a job to support her family. She said we were family so I said that she had basically ignored and sidelined us for years. We are only family now that she needs us. I said that we would take care of our grandchildren but she needed to work.

Afterwards I was discussing it with my spouse and they feel I was harsh. That she just lost her husband. I said that she just lost her meal ticket.

05/25/2026

AITAH for telling my Dad’s girlfriend the house she lives in is 0% hers and to expect nothing?

5+ years ago I(41) used my 401k to put a down payment on a house for my dad (69) and his longtime gf(73). I am co-owner with him. She pays 400$/mo.

They're poor and on fixed incomes, i grew up poor but have good job. Dad was a good dad. She has always been incredibly negative full of complaints and obvs has huge unhealed childhood trauma.

They are aging poorly. I wanted to look at selling their house and buying a large multi generational home this year. Dad told me she was freaking out and I said she can keep freaking out.

She apparently thought I was selling their house and leaving them homeless and buying myself a house, and yelled at me through the phone i could freak out cause 'she wasn't going anywhere', and after the call made comments about how much rent she has paid and how she deserves something and threatened my dad with or I'll get a lawyer. I was absolutely devastated she would even think I would do that.

I have been quite generous, always fair and forward. Paid the water bill at almost 200/mo. Buy a pallet of pellets each winter.

Got them new kitchen appliances a few years ago. When she realized she had the wrong end of the stick she tried to pretend like it didn't happen. No apology, just try to sweep it under the rug.

I couldn't let it fly. I realized there was no way I could now share a roof with this person. I gave it month and then sent her an email explaining I owe her nothing, thats not how rent works, she has no say in the sale or share in the proceeds, and she should reconcile with her own child (local, a__oholic, also poor) so if my father passes first she will have some support, because I will

not support her in any way including rent the house to her. That she will never be welcome to share my roof after this and there will be no further offer of a multi generational home. And that im not comfortable paying the water bill any longer bc it's in her name and also I just bought my dad a truck for 5k (in my name) im now paying insurance and maintenance on it.

She called when she got the email and tried to pretend half of it never happened, that she never insinuated it would take 20k to make her go away. My dad chimed in and she caved. Then we had it wrong.

That she didn't mean it like that. I didn't believe her and she called me evil. Then it was dad's fault for not giving her enough detail and that's why she flew off the handle.

I told her it didn't matter and have a nice life.

05/25/2026

AITA for telling the teachers that my daughter’s b**ly being a foster kid isn’t an excuse to be a b**t?

My (36F) daughter (11F) has a close knit group of 5 best friends with whom she does everything together. At her school students have to sit in the same seat for every single lesson, and my daughter and her best friends all sit together at one table.

There is another little girl in my daughter’s class called Winny. Once, Winny came to sit at my daughter’s table when one of her friends was off sick. That day, Winny constantly knocked my daughter’s books and pens off the table on accident, and borrowed her stationery only to snap one of her rubbers, stain her highlighter with black ink, and was even found with my daughter’s pens in her pocket.

One morning Winny came to school crying non stop. The teacher was very sympathetic and asked if there was anything she could do to help. Winny said she wanted my daughter removed from her seat so she could have it, and the teacher agreed. The only empty seats left were all the way in the back corner of the classroom opposite her friends, and the only students sitting there were a girl who was known to be a delinquent and two older boys who had been held back.

The teacher refused to give my daughter a real explanation for why she had to move seats, instead saying some generic stuff about being kind to those less fortunate. My daughter cried for a week straight. In our country, the school year ends in December, so that’s over 7 months of being isolated from her closest friends. She’s also starting highschool next year and will be attending a private school, while her friends are going to a public school, so this is the last time she can hang out with them everyday.

A few days ago, I was called into school because my daughter had gotten into an argument with Winny. Winny had confided in my daughter’s friends about how she had gone into foster care after her parents overdosed. Winny was always a loner at school and wanted some girls to sit with during this time, and the teacher sympathised with her so she agreed. The only reason my daughter had to move was because there wasn’t enough space for 7 girls and my daughter was simply the one Winny liked the least, and she admitted to lying to the teacher about being uncomfortable around my daughter to get her moved. When my daughter found this out, she told Winny she didn’t understand why she had to pay the price just because Winny’s parents were a bunch of insane criminals who didn’t want her anymore.

I know Winny’s had a hard time, but so has my daughter. Her older brother passed away only months ago. I told the teachers that Winny isn’t the only child going through a tough time and I didn’t understand why my daughter had to be punished for another girl’s struggles as if she wasn’t suffering herself. The teachers wanted me to make my daughter apologise for her remarks, and I said it was their fault for punishing her and forcing her to sit with the problem kids despite doing nothing wrong, and they were downplaying my daughter’s grief and trauma to cater to a brat. AITA?

05/25/2026

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