Rachelle Oblack

12/04/2025

High heels with treads! Yet still cute!
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12/02/2025

There’s something that shifts once you cross 50. You stop pretending certain relationships are “fine” when they’ve been wearing you down for years. You feel the difference in your chest. You feel it in your nervous system. You feel it when you walk back into your own house and finally breathe again.

Keeping bad company hits harder now because you actually know what your peace is worth. You’ve lived enough life to see the pattern. If someone keeps pulling you off your own path, you stop calling it loyalty. You call it what it is. And you walk away without apologizing for it.

We don’t get bonus points for suffering through people who refuse to grow. You get one second act. Protect it. Build it. Fill it with people who don’t confuse access with permission.

11/27/2025

Do you remember these decorations?

11/27/2025

Read on! Cause I got more to say! So here it goes.

I have spent a long time pretending I fit neatly into certain boxes. Nostalgia was comfortable and familiar and honestly it was easy because it let me hide behind old stories, instead of showing you who I actually am today. But the truth is that version of me was only one chapter and it stopped feeling like home. I finally hit the point where I could not keep posting things that no longer felt connected to who I am now. So I am showing up as myself. Not the themed character. Not the curated version. Just me.

It took me over fifty years to make peace with the fact that my real identity has always been DIY at the core. I grew up stretching every dollar. I learned early how to fix things instead of replace them and how to pull beauty out of nothing because I had to. I never had the nice things other people had and even when I finally could afford more later in life those old instincts stayed. I still see value where other people see junk. I still get more excited over a repurposed find than a shiny new trend. That is not something I want to hide anymore.

So this is the version of me you will see here. The woman who reinvents things because she learned to reinvent herself. The woman who shows up a little imperfect and a little messy because that is the only way to make anything honest. I want to make things that matter to the people watching. I want to talk about the real stuff that shaped me. And if that means stepping out of nostalgia and into something more raw and more me, then that is exactly what I am choosing.

11/26/2025

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11/26/2025

Since I’m wearing snakeskin pants now, please address me with the same caution you’d use for a wild animal you’re not sure is friendly. Cause these definitely give an “unhinged main character” vibe and I’m here for it.

11/17/2025

I’ve been dealing with thinning hair for a while and I tried one targeted fix. This is what happened. Good and bad, this is my review.

11/14/2025

You’re allowed to take up space. Style included. Half the world expects women our age to shrink. I’m not interested in that and neither should you be.

11/10/2025

If you knew what I’ve been through, I absolutely DESERVE to see myself again. And so do you. We are done playing small. Want to join me on this journey?

11/10/2025

I’m finally learning to love being over 50. For a long time I carried pain and confusion from things I didn’t deserve but still had to live through. I used to wonder why life kept handing me so much loss, but now I see that every hard thing was shaping me for this version of life. The one that finally feels like a fit. It’s the real me. Finally.

Abd judge me if you will, but I will say it anyway. I have beauty, grace, and style. And dang it I’m ALLOWED to compliment myself that way. And so is every other woman out here that’s ever made themselves small. We are gonna take up space now. Spaces we never ever took up before because of so much trauma. So much pain. Well, no more. We all deserve better than to spend the second act of our lives playing small don’t ya think?

Anyway, that’s what my new podcast is all about too. The stories, the healing, the humor, and the messy parts that connect all of it. If you’ve ever felt like you had to start over or felt smaller than you should have more than once, I think you’ll feel right at home there too.

08/01/2025