07/19/2025
After my sister sabotaged my wedding, my parents now expect her to “share” my baby due to her struggles to conceive.
As a little background, my sister, Pam (30F), persuaded our parents and a few other family members not to come to my wedding. She claimed it was inappropriate for me (27F) to get married while she was going through a divorce. When the truth wasn’t enough to turn them against me, she resorted to spreading vicious lies and rumors.
Recently, my husband and I announced on social media that I am in my second trimester of pregnancy. This was how my parents and Pam found out. After more than three years of silence, they suddenly reached out, trying to mend things. The reason? Pam is sadly struggling with infertility. Despite multiple failed IVF cycles, she is adamant about trying again and does not consider surrogacy or adoption to be viable options for her right now.
Since I am expecting, my parents thought it would be a perfect opportunity to make amends. Their goal was for Pam to spend time with a child “who is directly linked to her.” They even proposed that my child have two mothers, arguing that this would benefit me because I would receive more assistance. It became clear to me that my parents just wanted to play “happy family,” especially now that Pam couldn’t have children of her own.
During the call, I saw right through their phony politeness. I told them I would not accept their idea and that it was completely irrational to expect me to comply. Honestly, it was ridiculous they even thought I would consider letting Pam act as a mother to my future child. I told them that if they wanted to reconcile, it should be because they genuinely loved me and were sorry for how they had treated me, not because I was pregnant and they wanted to give Pam a plaything.
They took issue with that, claiming they were just offering help because they knew I would need it when the baby was born. They insisted Pam was ready to volunteer for her future niece or nephew and that their suggestion was perfectly innocent. They said I was being too harsh.
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