08/19/2026
We’re BACK! 🎙️❤️
After a much-needed week of rest, reflection, and allowing God to work on some things behind the scenes, the Anchored by the Sword Podcast is officially back—and honestly, I think God knew exactly what conversation I needed to come back with.
Today, I’m joined by Melissa Miller, author of the newly released book, But I Prayed for This: What to Do When Living in God’s Yes Is Harder Than You Expected.
Have you ever prayed and prayed for something, watched God finally answer that prayer, and then found yourself thinking…
**“Wait… I prayed for this. So why is this so hard?”**
Because SAME.
Sometimes we assume that if God says yes, everything will suddenly be easy. But what happens when the answered prayer comes with change, exhaustion, uncertainty, grief, adjustment, and a whole lot of dependence on God?
That’s exactly what Melissa and I unpack in this episode.
We talk about:
Why an answered prayer doesn't always feel the way we expected
The guilt and shame that come with thinking, “I should be happier”
What it means to hold grief in one hand and gratitude in the other
Melissa’s four seasons of blessings: blooming, building, balancing, and bittersweet
Finding safe people who will listen without trying to fix everything
Why self-care and self-compassion can actually be biblical
How to stay anchored when everything around you is changing
And the beautiful reminder that Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8)
If you've ever found yourself struggling in a season you prayed for, this conversation is for YOU.
Click this link to tune in or go to wherever you listen to podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2tOyKjQumgk13SMxT3FOZM?si=gkYAspPKS3yrQwrk91HMOQ
We're back, friends.
Let's get anchored.