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Something seemingly little or normal but profound, happened few hours ago.I had taken my kids with me because one of my ...
09/12/2026

Something seemingly little or normal but profound, happened few hours ago.
I had taken my kids with me because one of my daughters needed to get a vaccine. Her school had sent a message to get it done with deadline being yesterday.

I was going to pull her out from school yesterday but google search revealed to me that the vaccine place now opens on Saturdays 9am-1pm.

We did one or two errands and headed to the place, arriving at 12:18pm. There was a line of people outside, waiting to get inside. Their office space is very small.

Texas heat level was high.
We all stood under that sun for almost an hour.
I was beginning to get antsy because I have never seen that type of crowd there before. I guess weekend works better for most people.

I drove my car closer to the entrance and turned on the air-conditioner for my other kids to stay inside. We had just one more person ahead of us in line

As I made to get out of my car I saw everyone dispersing.
I was perplexed. My daughter walked up to me and said ," they said they are closed for the day".

What?!!!!!

Immediately I went to the entrance and began knocking( it was a glass door).
Softly but firmly.

From my peripheral vision I noticed that all the parents suddenly paused going to their cars. They began watching my actions.

I knocked and knocked until the door was opened.
I asked to speak with the director and the lady said she is the only one around and so the person to talk to .

I told her I needed to say something because there is a way to run a business . I informed her that it was totally wrong to allow all of us stand in that severe heat for almost an hour ( some people more than an hour) then suddenly ask us to go home.

She should have announced it earlier that only those able to get inside the office by 1pm will be attended to or better still she should have noted those who were in line by 1pm or even 12:50, then close the line behind the last person.
I told her I almost fainted under the sun which was the reason I brought my car closer and turned on the A/C.

She seemed flustered, said I didn't have to yell at her but she was just overwhelmed working alone since morning.

She then asked every single one of us to come inside for their shots. We were about 8 families( Two white, Three blacks, One Hispanic and another I cannot place).

The other women wanted to hug me. Infact one actually did. They kept on thanking me and saying God bless me for speaking up.

After the lady administered the shot to my daughter, she apologized for the wait, gave my daughter candy.
I offered to buy her lunch she declined, said " it's all good". This was all done in a private room.

When we got back to the reception. I apologized loudly for yelling at her( so everyone could hear). One of the mothers turned at this time and mouthed " thank you".

I know I didn't yell. People said I didn't yell but my voice was "stern", " harsh".

Yes! We had been waiting for an hour and you are just going to dismiss us like that ?

I couldn't comprehend why no one else made even a small attempt to speak up before I came to the scene and spoke up.

My daughter said it taught her to speak up when it is needed.

This has always been my personality.
I don't like to witness unfair treatment/ Injustice.

It has cost me at jobs; all staff will complain about something but no one wants to bell the cat.

I don't mind. I will do it over and over again without disrespect.

At this point, I should be named OKWULUORA ( loosely translated as the one that speaks for others).

JUST BREATHE

09/12/2026
Yesterday was 9/11. A most memorable day in the United States history. I have been quietly reflecting.A day Americans wi...
09/12/2026

Yesterday was 9/11. A most memorable day in the United States history. I have been quietly reflecting.

A day Americans will NEVER FORGET.
A day that shaped world travel, world politics and so many other things.

25 years ago yet it seems like yesterday.

I was in Nigeria, still in Nursing school with one year left to graduate, when I heard something bad had happened in America. I didn't grasp the gravity at the time.
The entire world was shook ( yes shook).

We witnessed terrorism like we had never seen it. The audacity of the intent and actions.

Beyond that, we also witnessed patriotism like we had never seen it. Men and women who gave their lives so that the United States will continue to be.

These heros are who we choose to focus on every 9/11. Their stories still bring tears to our eyes.
Their heroism never gets old.

Fathers and husbands young and old, wives, daughters, sisters young and old who displayed bravery that cannot be qualified. People who were courageous in the middle of their own intense fear and uncertainty.

These pictures tell a fraction of the acts of heroism exhibited on that day and days after; in the air, on land.

Google their names. There are hundreds of them.
Read their stories.

Pray for their existing families.

WE WILL NEVER FORGET.

09/12/2026

So we were invited to the graduation 😉.

Have you ever heard of graduation after 4 days of tae kwando ?

Well that's what we were invited to. I know it was a marketing tactic to get parents to now register their kids in the main activity.

I had fun though. We had some laughter watching the presentations. Scratch that. I had so much laughter being present there.

The kids were enamored.

JUST BREATHE



Have you met a Nigerian motivational/ inspirational speaker?If the person does not end up making you believe you can fly...
09/11/2026

Have you met a Nigerian motivational/ inspirational speaker?

If the person does not end up making you believe you can fly, then he/she is not Nigerian or not a motivational speaker.

The ability to make someone believe they are able to achieve above and beyond is innate in most Nigerians. Some use it negatively, putting us on the global watch of scams and marriage fraud with older white women.

Anyway, I almost went bankrupt because of this gift or should I call it a skill?

The year was 2017.

We had acquired a property that another family wanted to dispose of.

The land came with an existing structure on it; blocks had been erected years prior by the previous owner.

I had decided to build a bungalow for my mom so we pulled down the existing structures ( they were in bad shape).

The plan was a bungalow.

A very simple bungalow for maale to enter and have peace.

I invited a cousin to supervise the project since I am here in the U.S.

He expressed surprise why I wanted to build just a bungalow when I could easily make it a duplex.

I tried to argue that I didn't have the funds for such a project but he chased my concerns from my head.

He assured me that the difference to continue to lintel level, to building the 2nd floor and roofing the house was just going to be extra 2 more million naira.

I told him I still didn't have the money. ..but the seed had been sown.
I started questioning myself why I would stop at bungalow when I can build a 5 bedroom duplex with just extra N2m.
I began imagining everyone having their own rooms ( knowing fully well I wouldn't be sleeping there anytime).

Oh, did I tell you guys that the 5 bedrooms were ensuite?

"Stop at bungalow or add 2million naira and own a 5 bedroom duplex" became my dilemma.

Lofty imagination wanted to finish me.

Exchange rate at the time was about N360 to a dollar.

I called my cousin and told him I had changed my mind and duplex it is!
We called the architect to give us an updated plan.

My brethren !
The project started in year of our Lord 2017.

By year 2020 I was still building this duplex.
The N2million no gree complete. It pulled its brothers, sisters, cousins until they added up over N20m.

In 2017-2020 o. Hmmmm.

My cousin and I argued, we disagreed, I wanted to pause the project, he kept consoling and encouraging me.

Chai!!! My eyes saw whin!

Several millions of naira later, I realized I truly could fly😂😂😂.

My younger sister supported the much she could. At the time she wasn't financially buoyant.

As they say in Igbo language:
Going forward wasn't an option.
Going backward wasn't ab option.

Somehow, we continued in a direction; upwards.

It takes courage to deal with Nigerian artisans; strangers and relatives. I learnt and unlearnt things during that period.

Money disappeared for projects that were not delivered. Somehow Nigerian police was drawn to my artisans because that was their excuse after disappearing with my money.

My patience was tested.

In all, we give God thanks.

I was going through some personal property yesterday when I saw the notebook I had used to record all my expenses while building that house.

I really spent money o. From budget of N6m to over N23m spent🫨

JUST BREATHE



I reserve the peak milk and Milo for myself while the kids take the nesquik and Nido.What kind of mother am I?Before you...
09/10/2026

I reserve the peak milk and Milo for myself while the kids take the nesquik and Nido.
What kind of mother am I?

Before you judge me, were you using feeding money to buy malt and evaporated milk in the name of blood tonic?

JUST BREATHE

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This morning , as I  passed the cup of medications to my patient, I almost pulled back when I realized I was using my le...
09/10/2026

This morning , as I passed the cup of medications to my patient, I almost pulled back when I realized I was using my left hand.

Then my brain reminded me that I am in America, attending to an American.

The over 70yr old man didn't even flinch.

Culture and indoctrination is a powerful thing.

JUST BREATHE

Good morning!My waking up is not by accident.Hell has no authority to close my chapter. In the middle of uncertainty, yo...
09/09/2026

Good morning!
My waking up is not by accident.
Hell has no authority to close my chapter.
In the middle of uncertainty, you are still God🙌🏽

JUST BREATHE

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