06/05/2026
Heffernan spoke about how, in the past, most proms weren’t safe spaces for the q***r community. For decades, the high school prom was considered a heteronormative rite of passage. It was standard practice for schools to restrict prom ticket sales to mixed-gender couples only – a student could not purchase a “couple’s ticket” with someone of the same s*x. Dress codes were also enforced, preventing many gender-nonconforming and trans students from expressing themselves in a way that felt genuine, even if they managed to attend.
By the late 1990s and 2000s, Long Island schools began to see growing resistance to anti-LGBTQ+ attitudes, driven in large part by the rise of GSAs in Nassau and Suffolk County high schools. The Northport GSA students know Pride Prom will offer a safe space for their classmates; it is the latest expression of a movement that has expanded opportunities for LGBTQ+ teens to attend prom authentically, alongside the people they choose and without fear of harassment.
Other Pride proms have been held across Long Island in the past (the LGBT Network had theirs on May 29) but travel often made them inaccessible.
Heffernan thought it would be nice to have something closer to the Northport/East Northport community just for teens, alongside Pridefest, which is more of a family event, she said. So she reached out, via the YDA, to allies in other schools, including Huntington, South Huntington, Harborfields and Commack. She also connected with people in the Half Hollow Hills, Copiague and Hicksville school districts. She researched what clubs were active, and networked.
Dell’Aquila was immediately on board and has helped with the prom’s planning and organization, securing donations to help make the event a success. Community members have pitched in to provide food, photography and decorations.
“I’m really excited, especially to have kids from other schools coming to visit us,” Heffernan said. Oftentimes, GSAs are small groups, a space for people who are already familiar with one another, she said: “Maybe you want to branch out or reach out socially, and feel part of an even larger community.”
Pride Prom, she said, was created for that.
“We have the great privilege of offering an event that’s free, that also maybe gives you the chance to meet people you haven’t met already, and form new connections and new friendships. And I just think that’s very important.”
This Saturday, June 6, the Northport High School GSA will host the school’s first-ever Pride Prom, a celebratory event where Long Island teenagers from vario...