Terrell & Jen - Relationship Coaches

Terrell & Jen - Relationship Coaches We teach couples how to communicate in their relationship so they can build a haven of peace and love. Psalm 1:2-3

Terrell and Jen founders of The Oakhaven Company which provides inspiration and educational resources for your everyday life. As an ordained and licensed counselor, Terrell holds 20 years' experience helping people access and walk in their purpose. Jen's background as a preschool teacher and school administrator provides practical ways to organize and run a smooth home. If you want to grow in your

relationships, navigate the complexities of emotions and interactions, learn helpful tips to run your home smoothly with children, schedules, and budgets, and gain resources you can apply immediately that are from a true Biblical perspective, this is YOUR home! "Those who delight in instructions of the Lord will be like a tree firmly planted, yielding fruit."

He is Risen! Happy Easter
04/05/2026

He is Risen! Happy Easter

We’re bringing these back. 🤍After a few months away from posting, we’re returning to something that has always meant so ...
03/08/2026

We’re bringing these back. 🤍

After a few months away from posting, we’re returning to something that has always meant so much to this community - our weekly marriage prayers.

Because strong marriages don’t happen by accident. They grow when couples intentionally bring their relationship before God and choose to prioritize what matters most.

So take the time to pray this short prayer over your marriage. Whether things feel strong right now or a little stretched, prayer helps realign our hearts with God and with each other.

(And send it to your spouse as well to share your heart. ❤️)

✨ Why this prayer matters this week:

One of the biggest challenges couples face isn’t a lack of love. It’s outside pressure. Family expectations, busy schedules, opinions, obligations… they can slowly pull a marriage in different directions if couples aren’t intentional.

That’s why March inside the Relationship Vision Planner is all about boundaries.

Not boundaries to control your spouse…

But boundaries that protect your marriage, your unity, and the life you’re building together.

Healthy boundaries help couples stay a united front so they can keep growing together instead of being pulled apart by outside pressures.

If you want to learn more about the Relationship Vision Planner, send us a DM that says “VISION.” We’d love to share the details with you.

Take a moment today and pray this over your marriage. 🤍

Dear Heavenly Father, Please help us to be a united front and protect our marriage from outside pressure. Show us how to set healthy boundaries so that we can grow together as one.

United — Genesis 2:24
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”

Boundaries — Proverbs 4:23
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

Together — Ephesians 5:31
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”

2026 is the year of BINGO cards. 🟦✨If you’re ready to prioritize your marriage, strengthen your faith, and actually *hav...
01/02/2026

2026 is the year of BINGO cards. 🟦✨

If you’re ready to prioritize your marriage, strengthen your faith, and actually *have fun* learning and growing closer to your spouse — join us this month.

Our January Marriage Bingo Board is all about communication. Because strong marriages aren’t built on big gestures, but on everyday words, small moments, and choosing to show up well for each other.

No pressure.

No perfection.

Just simple, doable prompts that help you:

• feel more connected

• understand each other better

• invite God into real-life conversations

• build a solid foundation for your relationship

So here’s the question…

👉 Can you get a BINGO this month?

Save this board, share it with your spouse, and pick a square to start today. 💛

Follow along for more faith-filled, life-giving marriage rhythms. 👋🏽

And if you’re ready to go deeper, the Relationship Vision Planner helps you create clarity, unity, and direction in your marriage — and you can start anytime. Link’s in our bio, or comment “PLANNER” and we’ll send you the link. 📖

Let’s make growing together something we actually look forward to. ✨

👉 Save this prayer for the moments you’re reflecting on the year and wondering if things can truly change.This week’s pr...
12/28/2025

👉 Save this prayer for the moments you’re reflecting on the year and wondering if things can truly change.

This week’s prayer is for the wife standing at the edge of a new year and holding both gratitude and some disappointment; asking God, “Is there more for us?”

There is.

God works in seasons, not snapshots. And what feels unfinished today may simply be unfolding.

If you’re longing for clarity, direction, and a way to move forward with intention instead of uncertainty, the Relationship Vision Planner was created for this exact moment.

✨ As the year ends, we’re inviting you to invest in what matters most — your marriage.

👉 Comment “PLANNER” and we’ll send you the link.

Or find it in our bio and begin today.

This isn’t just a planner.

It’s a faith-centered guide to help you pray with purpose, plan with clarity, and pursue your marriage with hope again.

⭐️ You don’t have to keep guessing what to do next. God cares about your marriage, and so do we.

- Hope: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him…” — Romans 15:13

- Faith: “Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion…” — Philippians 1:6

- Perseverance: “Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” — Hebrews 12:1









⏰ Less Than 24 Hours Left!This is it — our Kickstarter ends TONIGHT at midnight. If you’ve been planning to support, ple...
12/01/2025

⏰ Less Than 24 Hours Left!

This is it — our Kickstarter ends TONIGHT at midnight. If you’ve been planning to support, please don’t wait any longer.

We would love for you to have your Relationship Vision Planner, but even if you simply believe in what we’re building, a small donation truly makes a huge impact in these final hours.

Your support helps us bring this tool to couples who are ready for clarity, deeper communication, and a faith-filled vision for their marriage.

Let’s finish strong. 💛
Support before midnight!

👉 Save this prayer for the moments you feel alone in the effort, because God sees every step you take in faith.This week...
11/30/2025

👉 Save this prayer for the moments you feel alone in the effort, because God sees every step you take in faith.

This week’s prayer is for the wives who feel like they’re the ones carrying the spiritual weight, the emotional load, or the desire for change… and are wondering if any of it matters.

It does.

God honors the small steps.

He multiplies the seeds you plant.

And He moves even when your spouse is not yet moving with you.

If your heart is longing for clarity, direction, and a way to finally feel guided instead of guessing, the Relationship Vision Planner was built for you.

✨ And with 2 days left on Kickstarter, your support helps bring this tool to life for wives and marriages everywhere.

👉 Back the Kickstarter today. Comment “LINK” and we’ll send it over!

Let’s build homes filled with love, intention, and God-shaped vision.



Prayer Verses

Grace - 2 Corinthians 12:9:

“But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.’ So I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”

Patience - Galatians 6:9:

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

Faith - 2 Corinthians 5:7:

“For we live by faith, not by sight.”

👉 Save this prayer for the moments you feel the pressure rising, because God will meet you right where you are.This week...
11/23/2025

👉 Save this prayer for the moments you feel the pressure rising, because God will meet you right where you are.

This week’s prayer is for the couples who want Thanksgiving to bring them closer, not pull them apart… who want a home marked by calmness, kindness, and a spirit of gratitude.

Because when you shift the atmosphere of your heart, you shift the atmosphere of your home.

And if your marriage has been needing a reset — clarity, connection, intentionality — we built the Relationship Vision Planner to help you live that out.

📅 Order your planner today and get it before the new year!

DM us “PLANNER” for the link!

Prayer Verses

- Gratitude - “Give thanks in all circumstances…” - 1 Thessalonians 5:18
- Gentleness - “Let your gentleness be evident to all…” - Philippians 4:5
- Grace - “From His fullness we have all received grace upon grace.” - John 1:16

Who’s leading your marriage right now?Because *something* is —your routines, your stress, your calendar…or your shared, ...
11/23/2025

Who’s leading your marriage right now?
Because *something* is —

your routines, your stress, your calendar…

or your shared, God-centered vision.

This week’s episode of the Home to Haven podcast breaks down what Christ-like leadership looks like in a home — and why so many Christian couples feel misaligned without even realizing it.

And if you’re longing for clarity, unity, and direction?

The Relationship Vision Planner was created to help you *lead your marriage well* — with Scripture, structure, and soul-level purpose guiding every step.

➡️ Values: already clarified

➡️ Goals: already outlined

➡️ Rhythms: already mapped

➡️ Vision: ready to walk out

Leadership becomes simpler when the path is clear.

🎙 Listen to the episode: *Who or What Is Leading Your Christian Marriage?* and

📘 Get the Relationship Vision Planner on Kickstarter now!

Comment 115 and we will send you the links!

It’s officially launch day—our Kickstarter is LIVE! 🚀 Head over now to see the Relationship Vision Planner and support t...
11/18/2025

It’s officially launch day—our Kickstarter is LIVE! 🚀 Head over now to see the Relationship Vision Planner and support the project!

A luxurious, faith-rooted planner designed to help couples grow spiritually, communicate deeply, and move forward together with clarity

11/18/2025

⏰ LAUNCHING 11/18! ⏰

What if you could wake up every day knowing you and your spouse were moving in the same direction? Stop living parallel lives and start building a future side by side.

This level of clarity isn't accidental - it's the result of having a purposeful plan.

The Relationship Vision Planner is the blueprint for that future. It takes your prayers and turns them into aligned action.

Don't enter another year without a shared vision. Be among the first to pledge and get exclusive rewards!

Set your reminder: Kickstarter goes LIVE tomorrow, 11/18!

Comment "KICKSTARTER" and we'll send you the link.

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