08/13/2026
FELLAS, LET'S BE HONEST. THIS IS WHY YOUR LONG DISTANCE ISN'T WORKING.
You want an old fashioned, loyal, ride-or-die woman... but you're not being an old fashioned MAN. Long distance doesn't work with new age effort. You can't just text her all day and think she's gonna feel loved from miles away. Old fashioned is the ONLY way long distance works. Back in the day if a man wanted a woman, he PURSUED her. He didn't just tell her he liked her, he SHOWED her. He courted her. And in a long distance relationship, showing her is everything because she can't feel you there. So how else is she supposed to know you care? I know some of y'all think flowers and gifts are "simping" - it's not. It's showing interest. It's saying "Even though you're far, you're still on my mind." Have a bouquet sent to her door just because it's Monday. Have her favorite snack delivered. Send her a little necklace, a card, something with her name on it. It doesn't have to be $100. It can be $20. But that $20 gift tells her: "I'm thinking about you. I want you. I'm not entertaining anyone else. I'm investing in YOU." A woman who is far away needs to FEEL chosen. If she never gets anything but texts, she starts to feel like an option. Like you want her but you don't want to TRY for her. And trust me - a woman who feels pursued will move mountains for you. She'll be loyal, she'll be soft for you, she'll be patient through the distance, she'll brag about you to everybody. But you gotta make her feel like she's worth the effort. Stop being scared to be a gentleman. Old fashioned love still wins. Especially when there's distance. Bring that back!
