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ISNC Chronicles, 140 Law Enforcement Dr., Jefferson, NC (2026)

03/18/2025

Ever wished the things you saw in movies happened in real life? The charming man you never expected to meet suddenly appears and you can't help but begin to love how he makes you feel.

Sadly this real life romcom turned out to be nothing but disappointment.

"We matched on Bumble in the summer. It was shortly after a break up for me and truthfully, I was looking for some fun, a distraction even. I made sure to put that on my profile.

We messaged for a few days and he seemed so sweet and respectful. He wanted to get to know me so he would offer to bring me lunch. Even on the hard days, he listened to me talk and he was there if I needed a shoulder to cry on.

I was moving and to my surprise, he offered to help. When I shared I had left some things with my ex, small things, he showed up with them - oven mitts, dish towels, that kind of stuff. Small, but appreciated gestures.

Again, to my surprise, he sat with me and trimmed flowers, made bouquets, cooked with me. Everything he did was unexpected and unprompted.

In person, he was great. When we were apart, his communication was very inconsistent. I didn't mind too much as I had no desire to start a relationship with him.

He told me he was a single parent so nights and weekends would be hard. I was okay with that, and I felt a bit sorry when he shared the only help he had was his mom

I hadn't heard from him in a few weeks when he suddenly reached out after Helene. He had this elaborate story about him taking care of his son alone while having no power, electricity and internet for weeks. Now I know he was really in Myrtle Beach with another woman.

I stumbled across his wife's facebook when she came up as a suggested friend. Of course I had to confront him.

He sent me this long voice note with another elaborate story updating me about his divorce.

I was starting to get some weird feeling about him so I cut it off. I'm glad I did.

I was shocked and appalled to learn all his lies."

03/18/2025

Life is full of surprises, but this takes being a 'third wheel' to the next level.

"I'm always curious about people's lives and have a genuine interest when I meet new people. Naturally, I wanted to know about his past.

I've learned that everyone always has a unique dating story, there's always one that stands out for them.

When we were talking about taking things to the bedroom, I was curious about things he'd enjoyed in the past.

I understand people try new things and you never know what you'll like if you don't try, right? But I was surprised by his response because it was experiences he clearly enjoyed often and regularly.

He said he really liked threesomes, which didn't seem like an odd answer. Then he followed that with how he regularly slept with a couple because the husband liked to watch him. He said this became a reoccurring thing for him and the couple and that he used an app to find more couples because he liked it so much.

The next story he told was with another couple that really liked to engage in DP...

Now I'm already a little surprised at this point but then he told me how he dated a woman that ate his a$$ and how much he really enjoyed it.

I wasn't sure what story was coming next, but imagine the shock when he told me CNC was hot. I had no idea what that was and had to ask. It means consensual non-consent...basically a r@pe fantasy.

I immediately changed the subject after that because the last answer was alarming and I didn't know what to say anymore.

The more I think about it, it wouldn't surprise me if he's treaded on that line or even crossed it.

I hope he hasn't, but his experiences always seemed to surprise me somehow. It's like he didn't have limits."

03/06/2025

Always pay attention to how people react to your boundaries. It's there you'll find the edge where their respect for you ends and their real intentions begin. That edge is were some of the scariest moments live.

Before you read, remember that NO means NO, but so does stop, I'm not sure, I want to wait, this feels wrong, I don't want to anymore, this doesn't feel right, this hurts, or I want to leave.

None of these require an explanation or a please.

"He had this weird obsession with wanting to claim me, as if he enjoyed leaving marks on me all the time. At first it was playful, but every time he took it a little further.

One time he bit me so hard that he left a huge bruise that couldn't be easily hidden. The bite was so hard you could see where his teeth went.

I knew he had a huge B**M collection, but there is a fine line between pain and pleasure.

Another time, I was in tears asking him to stop but he didn't want to immediately. I could tell he didn't have any remorse for what he was doing, like he didn't even realize or care how much he was hurting me.

When he finally did stop, all he said was 'yeah, I would have to break you to keep going and make this fit.'

He enjoyed the thought of hurting me and ripping me open.

He always wanted to record us and that made me really uncomfortable.

I didn't see him after that, but he still reaches out to this day."

02/24/2025

High school sweethearts. Sounds charming doesn’t it?

But what’s sweet knowing your husband, long before he was your husband, has cheated on you since day 1?

That sounds more like heartbreak.

We thought it only went back to 2017, it goes back to 2004.

We aren’t sure what’s worse: him cheating for 20 years or her knowing all this time and still standing by him.

“I went to high school with him. He was best friends with my high school sweetheart. It’s a small town. They were both in my circle of friends and we all had our high school sweethearts. We were kind of like a clan, I guess, stuck together.

He wasn’t popular or a ‘ladies’ man’ in high school so I never would have guessed any of this about him.

He was in band, so was she, and that’s how they met.

His dad owned the Blue Ridge Dinner Theatre in town and we would all hang out there sometimes. I still see both of them, and their son, around our small town.

They went off to the same college and lived in the same dorm building. That didn’t stop or change anything though. I would still see him in the dorms cheating with other women.

I’ve seen him on many dating apps over the last few years. Cheating has been a life long thing for him. It’s really sad.”

That really is a sad life to live and not one many would choose.

Both of them have shared with women that they are well aware he has been unfaithful since high school.

We hope anyone reading this knows to never accept this kind of love because this isn't love. We hope you have the self-respect to always choose more for yourself.

There is no such thing as part-time love.

02/18/2025

Sometimes we have to close chapters without closure, but can we really do that?

How do you close a door on the past and open a door to the future without feeling like you've lost part of yourself?

Our hearts go out to this Golden Girl.

"4 YEARS! I can't believe it was that long.

We met through an app and he seemed so nice. We talked about everything; new jobs, major life events and changes, our days. When we weren't physically together, we talked constantly through the day - texts, phone calls, Facetimes.

I'm in a different state, across the country, but we would still make time to see each other.

He said he talked to his therapist about me and that I was the healthiest thing that's happened to him.

I mailed his Christmas present and that's when his wife found out. I had no idea she even existed. I asked many times if he was married, or when he would seem off, if he had met someone else. The answer was always no. I've been mailing stuff to his house for the last 2 years!

He didn't even tell me himself. His wife reached out to me, I never heard from him.

She told me that he's been unfaithful for years, that he's done it to hundreds of women and she knows all about us. That I'm one of many.

Like others, I felt bad at first. Then she told me "you're not the first and you won't be the last." The message came with a silly face like it was some sort of joke to her, which I find sickening.

I started googling, looking for things online, and that's when I started seeing the posts about him.

To say I'm disgusted with everything I've learned about both of them is an understatement.

When I addressed the accusations of what he'd done to minors with her, she said she was supporting the work he's doing so he can continue to have a relationship with their son.

How can someone who works with children want their child around this man!? Neither of them should be allowed around children, ever.

He ruined years of my life."

02/03/2025

For better, for worse.

If you're like us, you've probably wondered how his wife fits into this story.

These are some things she's said to all of us at one point.

We wanted to tell her, make sure she knew. We wanted her to know she had options and we were here to help and support her. We felt bad for her and their child.

We all talked to her. That's when we realized she's a bigger part of it than we thought.

His wife is very open about him. She's told us she's known for years, all the years they've been together. Every time she talks with one, she knows it won't be the last time she has to talk to a girlfriend.

She openly admits she enables him, that he's never had any consequences.

She asks us to stay quiet. She tells us they're working through it, but they've been 'working through it' for almost 20 years.

She tells us we're the problem.

What do we think about that?

Real women are fearless. We're fighters. We're strong and brave, even when we don't want to be. We recognize and embrace each other's shine and we NEVER diminish each other's light. If anything, we help each other shine a little brighter.

We'll never understand why she stays. We'll never understand why she continues to be okay letting him risk women's health, and her own, by sleeping unprotected with so many people, especially when he's brought home STDs.

We'll never understand why she doesn't protect their child more or how she can even be allowed to work with children when he's sent s*xually explicit photos of himself to minors. We'll never understand why she asks us to stay silent and help her cover it up.

This isn't our puzzle to solve, but it is disheartening. She can leave you feeling more alone than he did.

If you know someone struggling from addiction (drugs, alcohol, s*x, etc.), know that you have many options for help; including treatment and rehab centers that offer meetings, classes, and in patient treatments.

01/31/2025

We stand by, and with, her for speaking up because this is never okay. We are here for anyone that has experienced this. We support you.

If you believe a minor has received invitations for s*xual acts or obscene material, report it by calling 1-800-THE-LOST or by visiting www.cybertipline.com!

This story is raw and true. It can be hard to read. We're thankful she allowed us to share her story so we can continue to bring awareness to his actions.

"He found me on Snapchat when I was a sophomore in high school. He told me he was in his 20's. He was well aware I was in high school because I told him my age and would send him photos of my classroom.

I thought it was flattering that an older guy was interested in talking to me and getting to know me. At the time, it didn't feel wrong by simply chatting with someone.

He eventually wanted to meet. I was in high school though and didn't have a car. He offered to call me an Uber to meet him. Of course I didn't go because I was young and he wanted to Uber me at least an hour away from home. It felt like a game at first.

He started sending me multiple n@ked photos of himself. He did this for a few years too. He would send a lot of them when he was at work because I could see construction sites and machinery in the background.

Looking back, it was definitely wrong and I'm disgusted when I think about it. Especially now that I know he was actually in his 30s, was and is married, and even had a child when he was doing this.

I'm still healing from him, but it has felt good finally talking about it. I hope everyone finds peace from the things he's done."

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01/31/2025

Liar, liar...

Here are a few of the lies he tells. Like a tree and its branches - one main lie, but different variations depending on the woman.

How he keeps all of it straight and what he's said to who, we'll never know.

01/31/2025

It's one thing to rob someone of a few weeks or month, another to rob years from someone's life.

A tale from our time traveler.

"Our story starts in 2021. We matched in the summer and talked sporadically. For a while our schedules never seemed to align.

When we were finally able to meet, he picked me up at work and took me to lunch. I even left my purse in his car and didn't realize it for a few hours. When I let him know, he was kind enough to drive it all the way back to me.

It kind of took off from there, like it was easy. He called and face-timed often. He would surprise me at work by bringing me my favorite coffee from Starbucks. He stayed with me a few times and I stayed with him on some of his work overnights when he was in the area.

I went to dinner with him and his coworkers where he introduced me as his girlfriend.

He asked me to spend the night with him at his house, but I later learned that wasn't even his house. It was one of his friend's.

Fast forward to January 2024. Things started to feel off and when I went to look for more information, I couldn't find anything. I finally did a property tax search and found his home with two names on it.

When I confronted him, he tried to tell me he was in an open marriage, that their arrangement was 'don't ask/don't tell,' and how he had been meaning to tell me for awhile. He said he had the texts to prove it, but I didn't care at this point.

He kept apologizing about how he meant to tell me and that didn't change how he felt about me. He still never mentioned a child.

He wasted years of my life. It takes a monster to do that."

01/27/2025

Open hearts and open minds are good ways to start, but sometimes sharing isn't caring.

We're glad this curious couple trusted their gut.

"We matched on a s3x app called Feeld and had been talking for a few months.

As couple, we wanted to fulfill our curiosities and are openly looking for 3-ways. Our conversations with him mostly revolved around this.

He openly expressed interest in receiving 0ral from my boyfriend, and regularly seeing and engaging in activities with us.

We never met up because he said he was always busy with work or his family, usually his mom or grandma. He never mentioned that he was married or had a family of his own.

It's one thing to be open and honest, which is important when you're engaging with couples and living the ENM lifestyle, but he is not.

After learning how many he sleeps with at a time and isn't open and honest about it, I'm glad we never met.

He is putting so many people's health in jeopardy with his careless actions."

01/27/2025

Some things really are too good to be true.

We can't believe he broke this Hallmark heart.

"I was renting a cabin near the mountains for the week when we matched on Bumble in October 2024. The week was intended to be a 'me' kind of trip, but I thought, 'why not?'

When we matched, we talked briefly and he offered to meet for breakfast. I thought that was a sweet idea instead of the typical 'let's go get drinks' kind of date.

We met at a diner on Halloween near Grandfather Mountain and talked for 3 hours! He seemed so genuine and we bonded over construction and my background in disaster relief.

He told me he didn't have any damage, but how scary the storm was and how thankful he was he didn't have a family or kids to worry about. Clearly I know that's not true now.

He told me all about life working on a Christmas tree farm, how busy this time of the year is, and I thought this was a real-life Hallmark movie. This man has to be too good to be true because how could he be single!?

We ended up seeing each other a few times, even sleeping together, and continued to talk up until the end of the year. I know the holidays can get busy and my schedule was crazy too.

When we slept together, he didn't even ask if he could finish inside me and did it anyway. I told him I don't want to leave the mountains with a baby so I need to get Plan B. He laughed and said "yeah, that's probably a good idea."

He didn't even offer to bring me to get it or offer to buy it.

I later learned that he told another one of his girlfriends that he's had a vasectomy. Who knows if that's true, but he still willingly finished where he wanted knowing I couldn't get pregnant and could have saved me from buying Plan B."

01/26/2025

The joy of opening another day on an advent calendar will never get old. Another day, another treat. Now I think I'll pass on that.

A holiday surprise for this sweet treat.

"We saw each other for a while, a few years. I want to say we started all the way back in 2021.

Went on tons of dates, even little getaways like when he rented a cabin in the mountains for us. Cute, right? Except looking back, I know it was wrong because he's 13 years older and I don't think any 21 year old should be doing that, mostly for safety reasons, but that's a different story.

One day we were at his house and it looked like a normal bachelor pad. That's when I saw it. Sitting against the wall was an advent calendar. Not the cute Christmas kind though.

At the top it read, "The 30 Joyous Ej@culations. Your sticky, icky advent calendar." It had mini snickers bars taped to it. Half were gone, so there's that.

On each side were these little motivational post-its. One said "something sweet, just for you, when you make a little goo" and the other one said "give it a beat, get a sweet treat." Clever, I guess.

The handwriting was clearly not his. I have no idea who made this for him.

I will never look at an advent calendar the same way. In fact, I could go the rest of my life without one."

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