01/29/2026
Episode 70 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a discussion between Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum and Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed., from , discussing detecting Selective Mutism early and building the foundation for successful intervention through intentional language and collaborative support.
In this clip, Cara Tyrrell introduces the framework of “four ages”—chronological, social-emotional, physical, and cognitive—to help parents understand why their intelligent children struggle in social situations.
She emphasizes that post-Covid, kids increasingly have massive gaps between their cognitive abilities and emotional development, and that these developmental mismatches aren’t deficits but differences in how children are processing and developing at their own pace.
Rather than identifying as “not a social kid,” children need to understand that social-emotional skills can be learned and grown into at their developmental level.
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