09/09/2026
Thereโs an invisible load that comes with raising a deaf/hard-of-hearing child that most people will never see. ๐ฆป๐
Itโs checking processors before they walk out the door.
Charging batteries. Packing backups. Keeping track of equipment that costs thousands of dollars.
Itโs walking into a noisy restaurant and immediately wondering if theyโll be able to follow the conversation.
Itโs reminding teachers to use the microphone. Advocating for accommodations. Watching for listening fatigue. Wondering if they actually heard the directionsโor just nodded because they were tired of asking people to repeat themselves.
Itโs watching social situations a little more closely.
Did they miss the joke?
Did someone think they were ignoring them?
Are they being included?
Did someone say something about their cochlear implants?
Itโs thinking about safety in ways other parents might never have to.
And underneath all of it is this constant balancing act:
Protect themโbut don't hold them back.
Advocate for themโbut teach them to advocate for themselves.
Give them every tool possibleโwhile making sure they know there is absolutely nothing wrong with being deaf.
People see my child thriving.
What they don't always see are the thousands of tiny things happening behind the scenes to make sure he has equal access to the world around him.
And I know I'm not the only DHH parent carrying this invisible load. ๐
So, to the parents who get it: Whatโs one part of raising a deaf/hard-of-hearing child that you wish more people understood? ๐ฆป