06/08/2023
Thankful for the opportunity to work with Arlee Rehabilitation Center and with National Native Children's Trauma Center where we learned about trauma informed care and the effects of trauma on indigenous kids.
By staying informed and aware of the pain present in our communities, we can cultivate a deeper understanding and become better listeners, able to empathize and offer assistance to those who may be triggered by their experiences.
As a care provider for children, intentionally acknowledging positive behaviors can greatly enhance their self-esteem, sense of safety, and overall positive reactions.
Research has repeatedly shown that having a trustworthy and supportive adult in a child's life is the greatest protective factor for their well-being. A reliable and caring adult can provide a sense of safety and stability, and help children navigate the challenges of life with confidence and resilience. Building at least one strong and nurturing relationship with an adult can make all the difference in a child's life, setting them on a path towards a healthy and happy future.
It's crucial to acknowledge that trauma can have a profound impact on our communities. It can lead to a lack of focus among younger individuals, and their behavior may be misinterpreted as a deficit. Additionally, trauma can create a significant disconnect from a sense of purpose or connection to something greater.
What we can do for the next-gen dealing with trauma: Create space and co-regulate with someone experiencing a trigger
Respond calmly and appropriately (empathize)
Demonstrate control (Don’t be reactive, but use consequences that are intentional and not punitive)
Be willing to tolerate strong emotions (Be a safe place for them)
Depersonalize Behaviors (Don’t take it personally)
In all things its important to know that we can build up our people and community. You can make a difference and be the support you may have never had.
With Love,
Dan