05/25/2026
A FAILED RELATIONSHIP
We all start as strangers, but we just don't sense the danger. Fall so hard, we break our bones, Ruin our heart, turn it into a stone. Compromises made, we've sacrificed. Prices made, mistakes never rectified. Learnt our less now, A perfect charm, broken now, don't know how. Promises broken, secrets kept, Shockingly awaken, we sat and wept. All stares gone, compliments forgotten, those lies then begun, Wishes then thrown, yet hoped for survival in the long run. Became friends again, we made a compromise, For one a gain, but against the other's choice. Friend to bestfriends, or will we be acquaintances, Now marking an end, washed off all the memorable instances. Now clueless about what the future may hold, We were told to be fearless and bold. We were unstoppable, now we came to a halt, Who was responsible? Who was at fault?
A relationship, not necessarily, but comes with a heavy toll termed as ‘breakup’. Ending a relationship can leave a person damaged - mentally and physically. One of the toughest things to do is to forget someone: their smile, their way of talking, their way of showing care, and all those elements that are attached to that person - whom you used to love.
Sometimes attachment can be more detrimental than anything else. Upon separation, you are unable to eat, sleep, focus or carry out your daily activities. Hollowness and coldness surround your existence. At that point, you need to stay close to your loved ones - your family and friends. Do not ever stay alone! It does take time, but you can get over this state.
Why Does Love Hurt?
Love, depicted in the movies, is all about sunshine and daffodils, but in reality, love life brings something else. If you are in love, you will stay in pain, not for the entire duration but certainly for a lot of time.
Being physically, mentally, psychologically, or verbally abused by your partner can leave you in distress. And why does that happen? Because one of the partners is fed up and there can multiple reasons for that.
Uncertainty in any sort of relationship causes it to fall apart. Love is a beautiful feeling that offers a sense of security and joy. Being accustomed to these feelings of love, one cannot let them go off easily.
Interestingly, love offers no sort of guarantee. Most couples are uncertain of their future and dread the pain that will arise due to uncontrollable circumstances of breakup. It is just anxiety nothing else that ruins the true essence of a relationship. If you worry a lot and do not communicate those feelings to your partner, it can cause a lot of pain.
Don’t take your happiness away by indulging in such unwanted thoughts. No one knows about the future, still, we plan a lot of things with our loved ones. So do not ruin the precious moments due to anxiety, stress, or fear of the unknown.
In the same manner, unrealistic expectations can lead to heartbreak. Understand your time and your partner and see where you stand. If you guys are honest with each other and are committed to staying loyal, there is nothing else to worry about. Ups and downs will come and go. Stay strong and together and face all the challenges!
Temporary pain should not lead to a breakup. Take into account all those issues that are bothering you and address them, one by one! By taking this step, you can bring your pain down. Love is an exceptional phenomenon. There would be times of pain and happiness too. Learn to accept all those moments and feel blessed.
You have been trying hard to stay positive during times of turmoil, but due to some irrepressible instances want to end your relationship. And here you are, looking forward to bracing the impact of breakup. Here, I will share the best methods through which you can come out of downheartedness caused due to separation.
