Starting Over Stronger Divorce Concierge

01/16/2025

Access to justice is a big issue in America's family courts. This is why I provide those facing divorce with more affordable administrative support to represent themselves in court.

I am relieved to see this incredibly important topic being brought into the public conversation in my home state.

Kansas Supreme Court chief justice warns of 'all-out crisis' in access to legal services • Kansas Reflector

Kansas Supreme Court Justice Marla Luckert told lawmakers Wednesday she was happy she wouldn't be talking about how a disaster had upended court operations like she has in past years with the COVID-19 pandemic and a cybersecurity attack.

01/15/2025

Good news! If you're asking the question, the answer is no.

12/01/2024

This was one of the most important, and final, books I read during my ten-year journey of outgrowing my marriage. It was such an incredible resource for making certain I had done all I could do. I highly recommend it to my clients who are still struggling with whether to keep trying or start the divorce process. Only you can decide what's best for you! This book will help. 📖

"Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay" by Mira Kirshenbaum is a practical guide for individuals struggling with the decision of whether to stay in or leave a relationship. The book provides clarity through a series of diagnostic questions designed to evaluate the health and potential of the relationship.

Here are 10 lessons from the book:

1. Your Feelings Matter: The emotions you experience in your relationship—whether joy, frustration, or resentment—are valid indicators of its health and sustainability.

2. Clarity Comes from Asking the Right Questions: Kirshenbaum provides specific diagnostic questions to help you understand whether your relationship has the potential for growth or if it’s better to part ways.

3. Patterns Are More Important than One-Time Events: Focus on recurring behaviors and issues rather than isolated incidents when evaluating your relationship.

4. Compatibility is Key: Differences in core values, life goals, and communication styles can create lasting tension, making compatibility essential for a thriving relationship.

5. The Absence of Love is a Red Flag: If love, care, or affection has significantly diminished, it’s often a sign that the relationship may not recover.

6. Staying “Just Because” Isn’t Enough: Fear of being alone, guilt, or concern for others’ opinions are not sufficient reasons to stay in an unfulfilling or damaging relationship.

7. Toxicity Can’t Be Ignored: Abuse, manipulation, or a lack of mutual respect are non-negotiable signs that a relationship is harmful and should be ended.

8. Change Requires Effort from Both Partners: A relationship can only improve if both parties are willing to acknowledge problems and work together to address them.

9. Trust Your Gut: Intuition often provides valuable insights into whether a relationship is worth saving or if it’s time to move on.

10. Leaving Can Be an Act of Self-Love: Choosing to leave a relationship that no longer serves you is not selfish—it’s an important step toward self-respect and personal growth.

This book offers a structured approach to navigating a difficult decision with empathy and logic, empowering readers to make choices that align with their well-being and long-term happiness.

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11/23/2024

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11/22/2024

Michigan !!!! 🔥🔥🔥 you are all amazing.


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11/13/2024

It is great to see Our Family Wizard sharing the importance of a Certified Divorce Coach to make your divorce experience better all the way around.

Divorce coaches work alongside other members of your professional team to provide the best possible outcomes after divorce.

11/04/2024

We need YOUR help to put Family Court Awareness Month on the map in YOUR community!

The family court system is failing to protect children. Parental rights currently trump child safety. The very system that was established to govern family law cases and make decisions that are “in the best interest” of children, has some undeniable shortcomings that warrant awareness, conversation, solutions and ultimately, change.

Link in comments!

11/02/2024

You can start now and finalize your divorce on your own terms when and how you want.
🍂 No expensive attorney fees.
🍂 Finalize in 60-90 days.
🍂 Reduce potential for conflict.
People who utilize the support and guidance of a Certified Divorce Coach® to DIY their divorce have lower stress, better decision-making skills, more clarity, confidence--and improved overall divorce outcomes. Link in comments or text 816-456-4919 for more information.

10/29/2024

Divorce doesn't have to be scary. Learn how you can save time, stress, and so much money by DIY'ing your divorce with the support of a Certified Divorce Coach, State Supreme Court Mediator and Independent Paralegal. Link in comments to book a free call.

Trauma-Informed Divorce Concierge Services: Supported DIY Divorce, Mediation, Private Coaching & Podcast for a better less-adversarial divorce from start to finish.

10/21/2024

If you or someone you love is facing or healing from a divorce, please share and subscribe to the on YouTube!

Starting Over Stronger Divorce Survival & Recovery saves you time, money and stress during your divorce by helping you embrace being a Survivor, not a victim, to set healthy boundaries, gather resources for well-informed legal, financial, real estate and emotional decisions. Secure your future stabi...

10/16/2024

Stay in the driver's seat of your divorce with supported self-representation, trauma-informed mediation, and private divorce coaching! Link in comments.

10/15/2024

Starting Over Stronger Divorce Concierge Services: Easy as 1-2-3!
1️⃣ Supported Self-Representation
2️⃣ Trauma-informed Mediation
3️⃣ Private Divorce Coaching

Subscribe to the SOS Podcast YouTube channel and learn more at the links in comments.

10/08/2024

10/07/2024

Education Moment: Narcissist abusers do not change. If they're "hoovering" you back in with promises of change, please know this. It wasn't a "mistake." Mistakes happen, and people who are not abusers will authentically apologize and change their behavior. Abusers will say everything but a true apology, and they will make empty promises of change, but the pattern will only repeat... and repeat... and repeat... and repeat... until YOU END IT. You can do it. Ask me how.