12/02/2025
She’s not hard to love.
She’s simply an old soul living in a world that often moves too fast to notice the little things that mean everything.
Her heart beats to a softer rhythm, one that longs for gentleness, for consistency, for the kind of love that isn’t loud or performative but deep and quietly unwavering.
She believes in slow mornings, handwritten notes, forehead kisses, and conversations under the stars.
And if you’re lucky enough to be loved by her, you’ll soon realize that what she desires is not extravagant... it’s simply rare.
She dreams of a love that’s patient and warm.
The kind where you open the door for her and call her “darlin” with a soft smile, not because it’s expected, but because that’s the kind of man you choose to be.
She wants to feel cared for in the little things.. like you starting her car on a cold winter morning so she can step into warmth and know she’s thought of, even when you’re not by her side.
These gestures may seem small, but they mean the world to her, because to her ... love is found in the quiet moments, not just the grand ones.
She wants to share life with you in ways that build a home, not just a house.
Maybe it’s trying a new recipe she found online, laughing together over burnt edges or perfect flavors.
Maybe it’s spreading a blanket in the backyard, lying beneath the night sky with fingers intertwined, talking about your future like it’s already unfolding.
She wants to feel like she’s not just a part of your days, but your dreams too.
With her, love is about showing up, showing effort, and showing that you still believe in romance the way it used to be.
She craves the simplicity of togetherness.
A 8 a.m. stroll through a farmer’s market. A shared cup of coffee.
A bubble bath prepared just for her after a long day, with the scent of her favorite candles filling the air and a warm towel waiting.
These are not demands.
These are the ways she feels safe, seen, and loved.
Because she gives that kind of care to others so effortlessly, she only hopes to receive it in return. Not as a reward, but as a reflection of mutual love.
She has been through heartache.
She has been overlooked.
She has been the one who stayed when others walked away.
That’s why she holds so tightly to the kind of love that feels certain.
She wants to find little notes that remind her she matters, to hear words that reassure her she’s irreplaceable.
And when you hold her face in your hands, kiss her forehead, and promise her that she’s not going anywhere, you’re not just giving her peace, you’re healing all the broken promises from before.
So if you ever meet a woman like her, don’t let the world convince you she’s asking for fairy tales.
She’s only asking for effort, kindness, and sincerity.
The kind of love that stood the test of time long before swipes and texts replaced touch and time.
Give her the old-fashioned love she’s dreamt of since she was a little girl and in return, you’ll receive a kind of devotion that this world has almost forgotten.
~ Cody Bret
