12/01/2025
We have a member that needs some good advice. Here is her question.
Hi, messaging for some advice, feel free to copy and paste and share with group. I really need some insight.
I have two neutered males, had one first then foster failed another, since having a baby last year the foster fail has attacked the other male on multiple occasions. We had a trainer come to the home and we eliminated letting the foster fail into our bedroom, and established the submissive one as priority at their suggestion (let him into the house first, make him go first for meals but feed them separately). At first it worked, but it is not working anymore. Has anyone else experienced this? I had them together for two years, no issues. The foster fail is dominant, and we avoid dog parks because if he gets hu**ed he will retaliate and get in a fight. He never starts fights with other dogs but will stand up for himself and it can get scary. I try to avoid other large males for him. My first dog is naturally submissive, but my foster fail is bullying him, scaring him, and starting the fights. The dog trainer said sometimes there is no fix and some dogs require to live in a single dog household. I don’t want to believe that. Any tips, advice? He is a part of our family and I love him to death, but I worry about a fight happening and my 1 year old getting caught in the cross fire. Please help me.