08/21/2026
“Women aren’t doing their jobs and having babies!”
…Our jobs? Excuse-moi?!
Conversations about the male loneliness epidemic, declining birth rates, and nearly every other existential crisis orbiting the manosphere are always boiled down to what women are or aren’t doing.
“Men are lonely because women won’t give them a chance.”
“The birth rate is declining because women won’t lie on their backs and have our children.”
But the conversation never turns toward the common denominator in these complaints: men.
The declining birth rate underscores one of the greatest issues of our time, which is that women are still being reduced to baby makers. Our lives, desires, and ambitions are treated as secondary to our supposed responsibility to reproduce.
Rather than looking inward and calling one another to become better men, many men shift their attention toward women. Our standards are too high. We’ve become too picky, too independent, too feminist.
I rarely see meaningful self-reflection from men with massive platforms, like Chris Williamson or Steven Bartlett. There is so much anger toward women that pollutes the manosphere, but what many of these men are truly angry about is their inability to rise to the occasion.
Society is moving toward a time when men no longer get relationships, s*x, marriage, or children simply because they are men. Women now have the freedom to decide whether what a man offers is good enough, and some men deeply resent that.
Because if declining birth rates were truly their greatest concern, these manosphere men would be building healthy marriages, raising children, and encouraging other men to become loving partners and fathers.
Instead, many of them sit inside an echo chamber of masculinity, blaming women for problems men refuse to confront within themselves.
Watch our latest episode with Abigail Porter
“Why I’m Never Having Kids”
