09/19/2026
Gen Z is questioning a lot of unwritten social rules that previous generations often followed without thinking twice.
That includes forced small talk, pretending to agree just to keep the peace, answering calls without warning, staying at gatherings out of obligation, tolerating unwanted advice, dressing up simply because it’s expected, and acting grateful for things they never wanted.
They’re also more comfortable saying “no” without a lengthy explanation and setting limits on their time and availability.
Older generations may see some of this as basic manners, while Gen Z often sees it as unnecessary people-pleasing.
Either way, the definition of “polite” is clearly changing.