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Am I Overreacting, 1100 Glendon Avenue 17th floor, Layton, UT (2025)

10/09/2025

Ain’t no way, am I overreacting? 💀

Imagine being married for 12 years with five kids and you on messenger doing s**t like this. Treated me like absolute s**t the entire year all because of stuff like this.

Come to find out my spouse was doing this in the dark and then gets mad at me for finding out, and now is trying to change the narrative projecting that she wants out of the marriage for being exposed.

10/09/2025

AIO, about to go nuclear over a text my kid's coach sent her.

So my (m35) kid's (13f) coach (60+m) sends messages on a group chat with her and her mother. I think it's weird and I expressed concern multiple times to my ex to no avail. Well yesterday he texted this on the group chat and I about lost my mind. Called him and screamed about how sick and inappropriate it was. He tried to say it was a joke and he was trying to "show her the color" He's said creepy things in the past but this in the most bold he's gotten. I'm about to report him to the director of the club and make something happen to prevent this perv from being around a bunch of little girls. I just want to make sure I'm not overreacting cause I feel like I want to k*ll him for trying to take advantage of my kif kid.

10/09/2025

AIO for thinking my bf (24M) is abusive?

My boyfriend has been showing abusive tendencies for the past couple of weeks but insists that it's my fault and i'm emotionally out of tune with the relationship.. Am i overreacting for thinking it's almost entirely his fault at this point?

Backstory for photos: He asked me to turn my location off a couple of days ago (and deleted discord and steam) because he was "tired of seeing me online and doing things".. so i did.. He asked me today to turn it back on and when I asked why... the following messages happened and he blew up on me. He immediately demanded I send my current location, to which I did, but called him crazy in a playful way (I was literally at the dollar store doing a doordash order) He accused me of cheating, and other things not shown in the screenshots (lying about where I was, going to buy drugs, etc). Mind you, we've been fighting for weeks and I was trying to keep things lighthearted and playful, or at least I felt like. Am i overreacting, and am I just genuinely emotionally out of tune in the relationship and don't account for his feelings like he says I do?

TLDR; my boyfriend has been showing abusive tendencies for weeks but claims it's just him showing his feelings and i'm emotionally of tune in the relationship. he blew up on me after he asked me to turn my location off, and then back on, and i asked why. am i overreacting or is he actually being emotionally/verbally abusive?

10/09/2025

AIO: Wife forced me to eat ice cream

I (29M) and my wife (27F) have been married for a little over a year. One of her close friends invited us on a 3-day trip out of state and usually she’s the only one that goes but an invitation was extended me to this time. My job is boring so I said why not.

The trip was going fine although I kind of third-wheeled her and her friend. And then she introduced us to some other guy that I don’t know and he was integrated into the trip. But last night she embarrassed me. All four of us went to museum and afterwards, they wanted to go to an ice cream shop. I didn’t want ice cream so I stood by the car and smoked a cig while they all went in. My wife still had a bowl of ice cream when they came out so I realized that she had some leftover.

She immediately came to me and asked me did I want any. I said no. Then she took a spoonful and tried to force it into my closed mouth while telling me to eat it. I turned my head, faked a laugh and told her I didn’t want any. Then she grabbed my face and held it in place and told me to eat it again. I told her to stop. Her friend and the guy was watching us. I could tell she was getting irritated at this point but I didn’t have any time to deescalate the situation before she scooped some of the ice cream up with her hand and tried to push it into my mouth. It got all over my mouth and chin. I just turned around and walked into the place to get some napkins.

I had no choice but to ride back to the hotel with her because the guy was driving but I didn’t say a word. I didn’t even look at her. Once we got there I went straight to the room and she stayed down at the hotel’s bar with her friend. Then she texted me and we had this conversation. I haven’t seen her this morning although we leave this afternoon so I’m guessing she’s in the room with her friend. I just feel so humiliated. I’ll admit that we don’t have the most exciting marriage cause we’re both always working (so the cheating allegations are crazy) and when we do have s*x, she only wants to do it in the bed with the lights off.

Our marriage has started to bore me but I deal with it because I love her. And we barely fight. She’s basically acting like I’m overreacting about the ice cream. Am I?

10/09/2025

AIO update - my bfs family gave me more money then intended and now we’re fighting

Hi everyone this is the one update I’ll be making. I decided to give the money back to his parents but I think I worsened the situation by not communicating with him. His parents were very shocked to be honest and seemed genuinely suprised I came to return the money (they did not seem to take offence at all btw!!). I didn’t mention my argument with my bf and kept everything quite vague. His dad told me I was so sweet and considerate for travelling so far to return the money but he stated he would’ve been very happy for me to just keep it as it was his mistake. Also he also stated he wanted to give me $200 and not $100 like what my bf said. He said it was fully his mistake by accidentally giving me $300 but he also said I was such a sweet girl he wouldn’t have minded if I kept the money. I still returned it however and promised to take his parents out for dinner the next time they visit. His parents didn’t seem to know my bfs reactions at all

However I think I worsened the situation with my bf as I didn’t tell him I was going to return the money. I’m honestly really hurt and am rethinking my entire relationship as this point. His is my first love so I still genuinely love him but I’m not sure if this is something I can accept long term. I’m willingly to further communicate after taking some time to process but if he’s unwilling then I’m not sure how to go from here. I understand that maybe I should’ve checked with him first before going straight to his parents but I was so hurt by him calling me privileged that I didn’t and I take full accountability by that but I guess I also wanted to check his parents reactions.

I am fully Chinese as a quick reminder and thank you everyone for your help and advice. I won’t be making any more updates, this will be my only one as I try and process my relationship as there’s a lot I need to consider. Thank you again

10/09/2025

AIO for breaking up with him for using ai to apologize and calling me fat?

I, (24 F) have been dating this guy (23 M) for about 6 years now. We met in college, and moved in together just a little while ago. Ever since then, he's made various comments about my appearance and gets jealous when im just simply talking to another guy. He always does this, apologizes, and then does it again. The ai part was genuinely unacceptable. It really ticked me off tbh. Couldn't he have just put a LITTLE soul in apologizing? I need help. Am I overreacting?

10/09/2025

AIO My (36f) boyfriend (30m) wanted me to ask my male friend if he’d sleep with me

For reference, the term boyfriend is a stretch. I ended things a while ago due to his toxic behavior. We were very recently trying again, under the guise of his alleged “change.” Last weekend, I crashed at my friend’s place after a party we hosted at his house because I drank. Mind you, I was in the spare bedroom, alone and was open with my toxic ex about it. I called him while I was in bed about to fall asleep. While I can understand his concerns, he approached me telling me wanted to rip my friend’s throat out & I should never sleep at another man’s house. This was unprovoked. This friend of mine has never hit on me, made me uncomfortable, gave me eyes, nada. Not to mention, he is currently dating someone.

The following texts show how quickly, IMO, he unraveled and lost control of himself. He then blocked me, which is fine, I think the problem took care of itself. My question is: AIO for wanting an apology from him for threatening my friend who gave me a safe place to sleep? Are all men this possessive? AIO for refusing to play his games?

10/09/2025

AIO for refusing to tell my mom about my therapy session

Basically I told my therapist about some creepy things my dad did because my mom (and of course my dad) made me feel like I was overreacting. My therapist validated my feelings and told me I wasn’t overreacting.

I then made the mistake of trying to tell my mom what my therapist said about my dad, to which she basically said we are both wrong. I then stupidly made a comment about how my therapist was right (as my therapist had told me that my mom doesn’t seem to be someone I can get support and validation from since she has a history of dismissing my feelings).

My mom asked what I meant, to which I said never mind I regret saying anything. Now my mom is trying to “punish” me by saying she won’t watch a movie with me until I tell her, because she has the “right” to know what’s being said about her in therapy. Since I’m refusing, she’s acting like I’m the one that’s causing a fight by not giving in.

I really feel like I’m within my right and that I’m not overreacting, but my mom has a way of making me question myself, so I thought I’d get an outside opinion.

10/09/2025

AIO my dad found out im gay and went ballistic, accusing me of wanting to hurt my little brother and threatening me with violence

This is a throwaway account to protect my identity but this happened yesterday, im currently packing rn to leave because he wants me out tonight. The boy I kissed is literally some guy who had a crush on me and we just really connected, I wa homeschooled but I met him at the library a few months ago and for the first time I have felt seen and appreciated, he’s still in the closet so I will never bring this problem to him, his family would actually probably kill him, which is much worse than what’s happening to me. I’ve done everything my father wanted, his words have destroyed me, I dont see how I could ever recover from this. I dont have any idea what I’ll be doing but I just want ti curl up in a ball and disappear. If I wasnt fully blind in one eye I would join the military. I cant anymore. Please someone talk to me im spiraling

10/09/2025

Aio for being upset that my boyfriend liked these pictures

My boyfriend recently agreed that he wouldn’t like pictures like this, but I found that he has. This hasn’t been the first time that I mentioned it to him, and he also has recently mentioned that he wanted to establish better boundaries. How do I expect him to actually respect my boundaries if I’ve mentioned to him that I don’t feel comfortable with him, liking pictures or following women that are dressed like this?

10/08/2025

AIO BF(37m) farted in my(35f) face this morning under the covers as a joke.

A week ago we traveled from the US to Hungary because my BF needed to take care of some family stuff. His grandparents passed away last year and we needed to clean out some of their stuff. Since I got here its been non-stop tension and fighting between us and also him and his brother. He lost his temper a lot and it was been very stressful and toxic. We've been able to try and act normal but I think i need to leave. This AM I was trying to initiate affection and morning cuddling which he always request if he wakes up and im not still in bed. Made his coffee was being nice. So i was scrolling under the blanket on my phone and at some point he came and bare ass farted in my face. When I made a mad look he said what's that face for with a disgusted look on his face. We gave each other a half ass kiss and then I texted this after he left.

10/08/2025

AP my husband is cheating on me with sent these texts

I 32F have been asking my husband 34M to stop his affair with his married coworker with a child. We moved to a new state one year ago and six months ago he found a new job.

As soon as he started working he began an affair with the receptionist at work. When I suspected my doubts, he kept telling me she was an old lady who had a child, was lonely because her husband was working late nights etc. etc.

He even brought her to our house and had dinner and she even asked me if I’m planning to have kids and gave me advice on how to take vitamins etc. etc. little did I know my husband was screwing her the entire time.

As soon as I found out, I asked my husband to cut her off because he said he’s sorry and wanted to work it out. But he also blamed me for the affair and said he did it because I was doubting him. He also refused to stop texting her or seeing her and I agree that I went to the lowest of lows to ask her to stop talking to him to work things out.

Then she proceeds to ask me if I'm being intimate with my husband. All these texts happened the week I found out. I am going for a divorce now, but these texts were absolutely diabolical.

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