
09/29/2025
Only days ago, my fiancée proposed. But that's not what I am here to share.
On the weekend that just passed by, he surprised me again, in a way I never saw coming.
He was supposed to be away for two to three weeks on work.
Our children had been 'shipped' to their grand parents.
I had braced myself to keep moving, staying busy,
with a plan on things I wanted to accomplish.
Out of nowhere he walked through the door.
Turns out, he conspired this weeks ago.
He had quietly arranged everything with my workplace so I could not say no.
His had a simple and electric mission.
Reminding me to ...
Pause. Breathe. Be.
Refill myself.
And Celebrate us.
Life never slows down.
There is always more work.
Parents are always checking-in.
But our hearts and bodies need a little space.
A pause.
A moment to refill.
A moment just to be.
And he wanted to make sure I do.
It helped big time.
It helped me show up fully again today.
Not as fragments, but as my best selves.
He saw me.
My family supported his mission.
My workplace made space on his request.
I truly paused, took a breather of a weekend, to refill.
And realized that I needed it
but never stopped to think I did.
His thoughtful surprise, and my conspiringly lovely workplace,
made this weekend a beautiful reminder
of how much we all need to pause, breathe, and refill
Even if we enjoy what we do,
even if we have the best life.
Grateful for all of it! - Full Stop!