03/25/2022
Words matter.
I call Scarlet, my special one.
I tell her she has special all over her (and usually spit up but that’s obvious right 🙄 for the record I don’t tell her that)
Then I ask Scarlet,
Special one, how do you know you are special?
I make my best pretend Scarlet voice and say, “Because my Daddy tells me I am”
I say, great! And how else?
Again, in my best guess Scarlet voice,
“I’m special Daddy because Mama tells me I am. (thanks Mama 🐻 for making our daughter feel so incredibly special every day 😘 )
I follow that up with… Great! And how else Scarlet?
Then I imagine her thinking about it 🤔 And she says,
“Because I know it, because I feel it, because I see it.”
This is my dream of her response and I’m going to work hard to make these words land into her heart, soul and spirit.
And I also know that there will be days that this idyllic response from her will need some encouragement.
So of course I’m trying my best to get ahead of this…..why not encourage her spirit now for later. As my last response in this imaginary conversation I tell Scarlet,
“If you can’t see it, just close your eyes, and believe it, it’s all inside.”
“It”being (special sauce)
I believe my daughter needs to hear these words now, some days I need to hear them, maybe today you need to hear them.
My fellow you’re doing better than you think you are and remember we’re better together.
Love you special one.
ps. Completely unrelated to this written post but related to this picture post with my wild big hair and originally was going in a different direction and was going to talk about my hair and being yourself etc.. was going to so I am still going to recommend ‘s TEDx Talk titled Female Lead - Must Be Willing to Shave Head
Thank you for being such a strong and graceful example for little Scarlet. 🙌🏽