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Award-winning author/relationship expert. HuffPost blogger. Engaged. Did your ex do you a favor? Submit your story to: [email protected].

This site was designed to help build a better you and attract better relationships. It gives helpful tips and tools to get you moving forward. Plus you can purchase your very own copy of Debra Rogers’ Award-Winning book, “He Did You a Favor.”

04/06/2025

How I Accidentally Became a Coach (Thanks to My Book)

When I wrote my first book, I wasn’t thinking about building a coaching business.

I just wanted to share my breakup story to help people heal, feel seen, and move forward.

That’s it. That was the goal.
No fancy funnels.
No “7-figure” strategy.

But something unexpected happened…

After my book was published, people started reaching out.
Not just to say, “Thank you,” or “I loved it."

But to ask:
“Do you coach?”
“Can I work with you privately?”
“I feel like you’re the only one who gets what I’m going through.”

At the time, I was already working as a writing coach—helping creatives bring their stories to life.

But now, something unexpected was happening…

Readers weren’t just resonating with the words.

They were inviting me into their lives—asking me to guide them through heartbreak, healing, and finding their way forward.

I hadn’t planned on becoming a relationship coach…

But my book opened that door.
And suddenly, I was walking people through the very journey I had written about.

I found myself guiding people through heartbreak and healing.

Readers felt connected to me because of my book.

They trusted me—because my words had already helped them transform.

And just like that… I started making money as a coach.
Not because I had a huge following.
Not because I had the perfect program.
But because I had a book that spoke directly to the heart of my audience.

👉 That’s the power of a book.

It opens doors you didn’t even know were there.
It positions you as a guide, a voice, a trusted expert.

Years later, I found myself returning full-time to my first love—what I’d been doing for over 25 years:

Helping writers and creative women tell and sell their stories.

If you’ve been dreaming of writing a book but think you don’t have time…

Or don’t know where to start…
Or don’t know how it could ever grow your business.
Or you have ideas, but don't know which one to choose...

✨ Let me show you what’s wildly possible.

Join me for the "It's Time to Write Your Book" FREE 5-day challenge. April 7th - 11th. Write the book you were born to bring to life. https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

Because your book’s just the beginning of something so much bigger.

With love and story magic,
Debra ✨

10/29/2024

From “Kajabi Hero Live” to working Chris’ booth with Nicole at Lightbox Expo. It’s been a total 4-day immersive experience with creators who are incredibly passionate about what they do.

I had a great time meeting new people and seeing old Disney Animation friends as well.

Now it’s time to get back to creating story magic… ✨

09/30/2024

From script to screen - this film has been three years in the making. It was exciting to finally see the finished product with an audience last night.

Congrats to Chris on “The Wild Robot” — #1 at the box office this past weekend! 🍿 🎥

07/06/2024

My mom loves the water. 🌊 Spending weekends on our boat was a highlight of my childhood. So any chance I get to take her to the ocean, I will. :)

🍽️Dinner at Dukes Huntington Beach & walked the pier at sunset. 🌅

03/10/2024

I've been to the Oscars twice and I have to say, it's truly is a magical experience. 🎥 Today is a perfect day to remind us how powerful storytelling is. How it can inspire, educate, and/or entertain people all around the world.

If you have a story in you and want to write a book, you're likely in one of three places:

1. You've got an idea but you're doubting whether it's good enough or you're worried it'll take too long to write.

2. Or, you've been writing pages, but it never turned into an actual book.

3. Or, you’ve written a draft or partial draft of your book, but don’t know what to do next. Or you want a traditional publishing deal, but you haven't written your book proposal.

I see you. I get you. Many of my students have been where you are before joining The Bestseller Book Course.

Here's the truth:

There will never be a perfect time to write.

If you keep waiting for the perfect time, you may never get around to doing something meaningful and memorable.

Something you value and that means so much to you.

As I stand here in this picture, holding the Oscar envelope for "Best Picture" (yes, my friend designed them one year), I'd love for you to say "yes" to yourself and your book.

Because your story needs to be written.
Are you ready to join us? Because of The Oscars, doors now close at 7PM PST / 10PM ET today! You can check out all the details here: ⭐⭐⭐
https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course

I've been in story development for 25+ years as writer’s coach, multi-award winning author, and Hollywood script consultant. Story is in my DNA. Teaching writing and storytelling is my passion. Helping you to achieve your book dream is my mission.

Let's dive into your story and create book magic together. ⭐

I hope to see you inside,
Debra.
https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course

03/10/2024

Long work day, but happy to end my day here, doing yoga with my family. ❤️

03/08/2024

On this International Women’s Day, are you ready to stand up, show up, share your voice and become the published author you're meant to be?

Many of you have messaged me asking if I can bring back the 3 bonuses I offered last week. So, I’ve brought them back for today only (Friday 3/8).

Why? Because I'm passionate about helping you write the book that changes your life and the lives of others.

Here’s all you get inside The Bestseller Book Course: Your one-stop-shop for everything you need to write, publish, promote, and profit from your book.

The Bestseller Book Course:
· 8-WEEK LIVE COURSE
· 6 MODULES (WITH BITE-SIZED LESSONS)
· 24+ PLAYBOOKS WITH TEMPLATES
· LIVE COACHING SESSIONS
· PRIVATE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY

Plus, your Authorpreneur Master Bundle:

· 2024 BOOK WRITER'S RESOURCE GUIDE
· BOOK LAUNCH BLUEPRINT
· AUTHOR REVENUE ACCELERATOR
· AUTHOR PLATFORM MASTERCLASS

And...
· LIFETIME ACCESS
· 14-DAY 100% MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

Also...
3 Incredible Bonuses:

⭐ The Book Proposal 2-Day Bootcamp ($497 value)
A recorded 2-day bootcamp to help you write a book proposal that gets noticed. Plus, get a playbook + your plug-in-play proposal template pack.

⭐ How to Write a Short Book Fast ($97 value)
Do you want to write a short book to boost your business and build your authority? This essential guide will help you write a book in 30 days.
⭐ 30 minute 1:1 Call with me ($250 value)
You + me + coffee + seats + massive productivity.

Bonuses expire tonight (Friday 3/8) at midnight.

You can start your book writing journey today for only $197.

So grab your spot right here, before it’s gone!
https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course

I hope to see you inside.

Write on, dear writers,
Debra

03/05/2024

How long have you delayed your book because you were afraid it wouldn’t be good enough? Or that it would take too long? Or that you’d be judged or criticized? Or you feared it would only be bought by your friends and family?

Imagine if...
⭐ It was easy, fun, and motivating to write your book?
⭐ You had a precise roadmap of how to organize your ideas into a compelling book.
⭐ You had a simplified action plan to get your book finished and published instead of a dreaded sense of “What’s next?”
⭐ You could finally crack the code to creating buzz for your book and building a list of fans who want to buy from you.
⭐ You knew how to write better and faster, saving you tons of time.
⭐ You didn’t have to wrack your brain to figure out how the heck to publish -- and you learned strategies to easily make money from your book...for years.

So who am I?

I'm a book and writer's coach (25+ years), multi-award-winning author, and former development executive (who read books/scripts and decided which ones got optioned).

Writing your book with "The Bestseller Book Course" will give you an advantage in creating a book that excites, engages, and encourages your ideal audience to buy more of what you have to offer.

Your book has chosen you. What you choose to do next up to you.

Every moment is a chance to make a different choice. Will you write the book you know you’re meant to write? Or will you choose to stay where you're at?

BBC is not like any other book course -- it’s the complete blueprint for your book and your author brand. You can use this all-inclusive course year after year to write and sell your books… in your cozy sweats on your comfy couch.

https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course

Grab your spot now and you’ll get lifetime access -- you can use it whenever need to! This course gives you everything you need for your author success.

Most importantly, this course will help you write your book now instead of a year from now.

Grab your seat now before doors close on Sunday @ 6PM. https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course
I hope to see you inside,
Debra

03/04/2024

Are you in the FREE "It's Time to Write Your Book" bootcamp?

We're going into our final week beginning with a LIVE session
where I share insider secrets of bestselling authors.

Plus, we'll have a private book chat on Thursday where you can get all your burning book questions answered.

And, you can now binge all the trainings from the 5-day Book Writing Bootcamp on your own time until March 8th. You can easily get in right here https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

Sound good? Did I mention it's free?

I’ll hope to see you there!
Debra

Now, tell me:

What will it mean to you when your book captivates readers all over the world?

What will it mean to others when your stories deeply impact them?

What will it mean to you when you achieve your dreams of being a published author?

Doors to The Bestseller Book Course close this week! You can check out all the details here:
https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course

03/02/2024

Have you been in my FREE "It's Time to Write Your Book" Bootcamp this week? People have been blown away by its value.

I want to extend this FREE invitation to binge all the trainings on your own like a hot 🔥 Netflix series until March 8th. Grab your free spot before this goes away: https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

Here’s just a snippet of what people have said this week:

““Ideas are flowing!!!” Sarah L.

“OMG, you nailed me, Debra!” Rebecca B.

“Exciting and empowering! I’m getting my book done. This has been SO helpful!” Shelby T.

“You are so approachable, insightful and valuable!” CC

“After years of believing the story “I’m not a good writer” I finally believe there’s a book in me and it’s time to come out!” Amy P.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’ve been coaching writers for 25+ years as well as being a multi-award-winning author...and I’ve also been on the other side of the development table, deciding which books should get optioned. I know what it takes to make your book to stand out and sell.

Inside this free experience, you’ll get:
🔥 Nail Your Bestseller Idea.
🔥 Hook Your Reader at “Hello.”
🔥 Make Your Book Stand Out and Sell.
🔥 The Book Outline Party!
🔥 Traditional Publishing vs Self-Publishing Masterclass.

+ a 40-page writing workbook.

And I’m going to be doing 2 more LIVE sessions next week, so grab your seat for this incredible experience to help you write a bestseller.

You + me + coffee + sweats = creative breakthroughs.

If you have a book in you, it's meant for you. It's time to get your book done and out the door in 2024. Grab your seat here: https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

03/01/2024

Yes, I think I've gone crazy.🤪 Because I'm offering crazy, valuable deal for The Bestseller Book Course: Your one-stop-shop for everything you need to write, publish, promote and profit from your book...for years.

This is only available until midnight tonight, so if you want to get your book done and out the door in 2024, you can check out all the details here: https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/the-bestseller-book-course

If you sign up tonight, in addition to The Bestseller Book Course and all it's bonus trainings, you'll also get:

🌟The Book Proposal 2-day bootcamp
🌟How to Write a Short Book Fast
🌟30-minute, private 1:1 Coaching Session with me (I've been coaching writers for 25+ years, I know how to create your breakthrough to bestseller success).

If you have a book in you, it's meant for you. Let get you in the 1% author club.

Write on,
Debra

P.S. Have you been in my FREE "It's Time to Write Your Book" Bootcamp this week? If not, there's still time to join in and binge all the trainings. You can do that easily here: https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

02/19/2024

I remember driving to Showtime Networks on a Friday night in my red Volkswagen Cabriolet, picking up books and scripts for the weekend read. It felt like Christmas morning, holding these literary works in my hands, hoping I’d find the next blockbuster.

I’d spend the weekend curled up on my couch, pouring over words as I poured more coffee.

I opened every book or script with excitement and enthusiasm. I wanted it to be good. I tried to find that diamond in the rough. That one that stood out. And when I did, I couldn’t wait until Monday to share it with my boss.

Over the years, I’ve read hundreds of books and scripts, the good, the bad, and the surprising.

When I became an author myself, writing took a different path. I went from writing story coverage for others to writing my own story. It was a cathartic, transformational journey that changed my entire life.

I went from wallflower wife to award-winning writer...in less than a year (that’s a story for another day).

I never looked back.

There’s nothing like seeing your words on the page, holding your book baby in your hands, and having people all over the world say, “Thank you for writing this book.”

Now, I help aspiring authors do the same. My mission is to get your words out of your head and onto the page so you can become the author you’re meant to be.

Writing a book lets you share your unique story, insights, experiences, and expertise. It can inspire others, leave a lasting legacy, and/or establish you as an authority in your field.

What story have you been wanting to tell?

What story have you been wanting to tell?

What’s been holding you back? Do you:

- Want to write a book but don’t know where to start?
- Have many ideas but don’t know which one to choose?
- Have a burning desire to write your story but are afraid it’ll take too long)?
- Feel overwhelmed by the process of writing and publishing a book?

Then, I’ve got something special for you...

“It’s Time to Write Your Book”
FREE 5-Day Book Writing Bootcamp
February 26th – March 1st

Inside this one-of-a-kind experience, you’ll learn how to:

✍️ Nail Your Bestseller Idea.
🪝 Hook Your Reader at “Hello.”
🤑 Make Your Book Stand Out and Sell.

Plus, you also get:

🎉 The Book Outline Party! 🎉
📚 Traditional Publishing vs Self-Publishing Masterclass.

Don’t miss out on this FREE 5-day book writing bootcamp ✍️with new trainings, coaching and a kickass community...all to kickstart the book you’ve always wanted to write! https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

One book can change your life...let me show you how.

This bootcamp is a one-of-kind experience. Grab your seat now. I hope to see you there!

And if you know of anyone who’d be interested, share this with a friend! https://www.debrajeanrogers.com/bookchallenge

P.S. Post in the comments -- and tell me: why do you want to write a book? I’d love to hear from you.

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