
09/27/2025
I'm Liz (25F). My parents, David (50M) and Laura (48F), divorced when I was a teenager. It wasn't messy, but it was painful.
My mom is a strong woman who raised me and my brother Sam (28M) with dignity, even when things were hard. My dad eventually moved on, and a few years ago, he met Amanda (35F).
At first, Amanda was fine. Not my favorite person, but polite. I noticed, though, that she often compared herself to my mom — little digs like, "Well, I'm younger than your mom," or "I cook more modern food than she probably does."
Dad always shut it down quickly: "Amanda, don't compare yourself to Laura. She's the mother of my kids, and I'll always respect her."
Still, I could tell Amanda was insecure.
A few weeks ago, Dad invited us all to a family dinner to celebrate his engagement to Amanda. It was me, my brother Sam, my grandparents, my aunt and uncle, Dad, and Amanda.
At first, it was great — laughter, food, talk of wedding plans. My grandma even said warmly, "David, I'm glad you found happiness again, like you once had with Laura."
Then Amanda laughed — this sharp, awkward laugh — and decided to make a joke. But instead of laughter, the table fell quiet and my dad turned white. ⬇️