10/07/2025
my ex seems upset but we haven’t spoke since May 2023.
The last time me and him communicated through text, he sent me a bunch of paragraphs similar to this. I said something snarky back which I shouldn’t have done. This time I’m using emotional regulation and restraint to not say anything, which I think is how I ended up getting a 2 AM message. There is so much backstory, but all I’m gonna say is that we were together for six years when I was 19 years old to 25 years old. I am 26 about to be 27. And although I have not provided a lot of context, I want to know initial interpretations about the message. (I did not use him BTW, and I’m not gonna start questioning myself about if I did or not) I was hoping he would just be happy, but that wasn’t enough, he wanted to make sure I was miserable. And I hate that it’s not working for him. I have my own turmoil and luckily he’s not a part of it.