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Bingham, 2800 E Observatory Road, Los Angeles, CA (2025)

10/16/2025

Am I overreacting? Is dumping this guy a wise decision?

10/16/2025

Am I overreacting? Boyfriend sent me this message that feels like it was maybe meant for someone else.

Am I tripping? Boyfriend sent me this while he was in the basement and I’m upstairs. For context, I’ve been in the kitchen cooking and feeding my boys all evening. He steps out for about 40 mins. He comes in with food, eats, and then goes back downstairs. He then sends me this message… when I asked him what he was talking about, he says “I feel rejuvenated from taking my vitamins, I was asking if you feel rejuvenated from us is having s*x last night”. Now I’m no Nancy Drew but this sounds like a cover up… or maybe I’m just overthinking it Lol Please help!

10/16/2025

final update: am i overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend?

so we ended meeting early morning since something came up for me later in the afternoon. i think a lot of the comments on my two previous posts were useful for both him and i to evaluate our actions, reflect, and understand how both of us handled it poorly. as some people pointed out, it’s hard to add layers of nuance to a simple reddit post. i was overly excited in my first post to prove my point and my boyfriend was overly aggressive.

both people can be wrong, and i think calling someone manipulative, gaslighting, abusive, just from a few screenshots is an unfair conclusion. ultimately though, we did break up, due to the general instability within our relationship. i found him to be too insecure for me, too aggressive, and he agreed he needed to work on those traits. i am also maybe not emotionally mature enough to be in a committed relationship.

we are both models, work for the same agency (which is how we met), and are in the same circle of friends within the agency.

us crossing paths is an inevitability, so there is no hard feelings between us. we mutually agreed that maybe now is not the right time, despite how much we love each other. our relationship ended amicably and as per our texts, no drama. Sorry for the anticlimactic update.

10/16/2025

AIO for telling my baby daddy mum she did not raise her son right?

When I caught him with another woman at home, I kicked him out. I pay the rent and am the sole breadwinner, while he doesn't contribute anything financially. I understand that losing his job was tough, but that doesn't excuse his lack of involvement in our child's life. It's not too much to ask for him to attend our baby's appointments, visit him at the hospital, or help watch him while I work. Yet, he had the audacity to bring a woman home while I was shouldering all the responsibilities. After I sent him out, I refused to let him give our baby his name, and now I'm being labeled as the bad guy? The mother is even telling me I'm doing too much? Did I really overstep, or was I justified in standing up for myself and our child?

10/16/2025

AIO if I blocked my friend?

We’ve been friends for over a year. He knows I had a boyfriend recently, and he’s been acting weird. We were talking on a call and then he said he wanted to FaceTime. I did FaceTime, and I had my dress showing, so I hung up because he was acting weird. Now he gets extra weird when I say I don’t want to do certain things.

Which I think is weird, because we’re clearly just friends.

10/16/2025

AIO housemate is making me feel uncomfortable

Hello everyone, I don’t have many friends that aren’t autistic and they are quite loyal so they would never say that I was in the wrong so thought I’d ask here. I, 28f, moved into a houseshare in June and one of the housemates has had it out for me since the beginning. The first night I moved she accused me of moving her cooking spoon, I didn’t, I had only been in the kitchen to put my shopping away but she was quite adamant so I smiled and nodded and let it go. A few weeks later she started up with demanding I clean things, such as spilt tea on the side and the microwave, this didn’t bother me as I do clean after myself so I know any mess is probably not me, (there’s four of us here). A week or so after that she accused me of opening someone else’s mail, not her mail but one of the other girls, and her latest thing has been about soap suds in the sink after I have washed the dishes. There are a few more examples (she took my wet washing out of the machine and left it all day) but this is long enough already and the main issue is the soap. She has chosen this as her hill to die on and has even mentioned it to the landlords (they didn’t really care). This is the conversation I had with her today, I can’t tell if I am in the wrong or if I was rude, I don’t personally think so but idk so I’m hoping someone can tell me if I have to adjust my attitude or if I am okay to speak the way I do. I really didn’t like the tone of her messages but again I don’t know if she is being rude or if that’s how she talks. Any advice appreciated.

10/16/2025

AIO [Update]: Friend didn’t invite me bc my ex is her fiancé’s best man

Pondered on what I wanted to address and made sure I set the boundary that i didn’t wanna continue the friendship. This is my update.

Thank you all for sharing your insights. I was able to gain different perspectives, which help me write what the response I wanted to tell her.

10/16/2025

AIO to my response to my friend who knows I’m terminally ill and is refusing to pay me back? *UPDATE*

Here’s the first post. It has all the information.

I’ve been getting messages asking for an update.

It’s not positive. At this point I’m out of ideas. I just want to feel peace. Thank you for all the advice you gave me. Bless y’all.

10/16/2025

AIO. My bf won’t talk to me over my views on immigrants

I feel from the messages this is pretty self explanatory. I’m just at a complete lost right now and not sure if I’m overreacting for being angry about this and should just drop it. Or if he’s overreacting and bei

10/16/2025

AIO for telling someone I just started seeing that things wouldn’t work bc he can’t refer to my trans friend as he?

I (34f) started talking to and hanging out with this guy (31m) about 5 weeks ago. Today we had a conversation about him coming to my friends house with me who is trans FTM. Please read the screenshots of text and tell me, AIO?

10/16/2025

AIO my brother won’t attend my wedding

My older brother (39M) and I (32M) have never been extremely close because we have very little in common, but we get along well enough when we see each other at family gatherings and holidays. We rarely ever have disagreements, but we also keep our conversations very surface-level (usually just talking about pop culture or his kids). I came out of the closet at a very young age, and my family was always very supportive and accepting. I grew up in a Christian household, yet never felt judged or condemned by my own family. I attended Christian schools and felt incredibly uncomfortable there, but I had a safe space at home to be myself.

It wasn’t until September of this year, when I got engaged to my partner of 5 years, that my s*xuality suddenly became an issue. I am not a Christian or a member of any religion, for that matter. My brother, on the other hand, has become increasingly devout over the last two decades, especially after meeting his wife in ~2013. They are the type of Christians who believe doing yoga invites the devil into your body, and Satan is influencing the election. So yeah, I just avoid the subject of religion around them.

When I announced the engagement in the family group chat, I only received congratulatory messages from my sister, my mom, and a half brother of mine. The brother from these screenshots, his wife, and my dad said nothing (though I later spoke to my dad). I found that really odd. I later discussed it with my sister, and she agreed it was weird, and thought maybe they were just busy (my brother has 4 kids and an engineering career) but would say something eventually. The engagement was announced on 9/22 and I didn’t hear anything from him until 10/11, when he sent me the text shown here.

After I sent my reply, I blocked his number. I know this may seem extreme. But in my mind, I could not imagine continuing a brotherly relationship with him knowing that he does not support or respect my right to marry. Why should he be able to compartmentalize his relationship with me like that? I guess my sister talked to him about it, and he said he felt that as the “leader of his family” he didn’t want to set a bad example for his children. But my partner and I have been around his kids countless times, and it was never an issue until now.

His birthday just passed and for the first time in probably 25 years, I didn’t wish him a happy birthday. I feel like I have to decide now if I’m truly committed to cutting him out of my life for good. So I have to know: am I overreacting?

10/16/2025

UPDATE: Nail tech labels me “no show” 15 mins before my appointment

hi everyone! thank you so much for all of your responses. i did not expect this post to blow up like it did. for those wondering, yes this was a real situation i experienced and not “something i made up for karma” lol. i’ve seen some questions about if i agreed to the policies: the answer is no. the policies were in an instagram story highlight and at no point was i directed by the nail tech to find policies there. in fact, there was no mention of policies in our messages. i am currently working to get the deposit refunded! i don’t feel comfortable sharing the tech’s information publicly, but i have been and will continue to tell people local to me about the experience. as frustrated as i am with the situation, i don’t want to be responsible for sending the wrath of the internet to this individual. i posted this with the intention of receiving honest feedback about my responsibility in this situation. i do take accountability in that i could have been more diligent with locating and reading policies. with that being said, i also believe that this policy was not made clear and that policy itself is ridiculous. i will not be associating further with this individual. through sharing my experience i received an overwhelming number of nail artist recommendations close to me. i look forward to exploring these talented artists.

i also ended up doing my own nails and giving myself a gel mani at home!

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