10/02/2026
Advice wanted, seasoned folks!
Okay. After years of lurking here & having a garden & chickens, I'm looking at moving off grid, with a 6 year old, without another adult, on a limited budget, mid summer. I have to be out of my rental by then and cost of living is ridiculous here so apparently it's time to move off grid.
I've found land deals in an area I can afford (and still drive back to visit the grandma & family monthly)
I am going to bring the chickens. I am going to build a cob house and of course file a building permit which also let's us live in an RV on the property while building.
Properties on the table are 2-8 acres, somewhat arid area, have to haul water until drilling a well. Final choice likely comes down to highest water table but please give advice based on experience.
✳️✳️What would you do to prepare for this kind of move? ❇️❇️
✔️ Solar power is one thing to learn about and at least practice setting up/charging a few devices with a few panels before moving. A few good solar lights to have an outdoor space & check animals in the night? Links are *so* appreciated if you have recommendations that make your life easier 💓
✔️ how do you prepare a child for a change like this? She's 6, able to care for small animals and cook a bit, but she's going to lose her endless cheetos supply 😆 So what made this easier on your kids?
✔️ inexpensive solar gadgets that really are worth the cost? Like lights? Maybe charge a TV for a weekly movie? Warm water for the child's bath?
✔️ What questions do I ask about the property? Water table, zoning, taxes, proximity to current power lines, but what else?
✔️ what do you take from modern living, what do you leave? I can leave most of it. But advice is welcome. I plan to take gardening & animal husbandry care books, plus a few boxes of entertainment books. I will take my greenhouse & gardening supplies & my chickens set up.
✔️ what else? I'll bring a few board games, lots of kids books & art supplies, but don't want to take a ton of crap.
Goals are to eventually have a handful of goats, 2-3 horses/ponies (yes, lots of horse and livestock experience and no rush on doing that before the place is ready) plus a few dozen chicken or up to 150 if space allows, and a greenhouse, big garden, and a microgreens enterprise. Someday I'll dig & stock a pond.
A few trees are a must, so is some open sunny space ... definitely compatible with the properties I'm eyeballing. It's okay if it takes a few years of mulch & manure to have good garden soil.
Please don't lecture me on the hardships & down sides. I'm going to do this, I'm not afraid of the blood/sweat/tears/solitude. I'm asking what you'd do to prepare, if you were at my stage with the wisdom you have now. I have 60-90 days to prep and after the land & building permits & RV, only a few thousand dollars available for immediate purchases.
Canning, gardening, butchering, and livestock is not new to me. But doing it all, alone, definitely will be a learning curve.
Pic of my chicks for tax.