08/20/2026
Don’t get too close to people!!
That doesn’t mean we should talk from a distance without holding hands or hugging anyone.
It means we shouldn’t touch people’s souls!
To be honest, we tend to get close to someone, and we end up missing that person!!
This is common not only with friends and relatives, but also with parents and siblings.
It happens like this 👇🏼
Whether we admit it or not, everyone has a beautiful part inside and an ugly part.
Some people have less beautiful parts than ugly parts, and some people have more ugly parts.
Regardless of size, we all have more or less of both of those parts inside.
As humans, we all hide our ugly parts and show off our beautiful parts to the world.
Each one’s We go through life showing only our beautiful parts to the world based on our ability to endure and hold on and our acting skills.
Then, based on the qualities we see on the outside, we put each person we meet into a bucket,
and in a fantasy we create, we classify people as good or bad, and we maintain our relationships without any problems.
We occasionally have relationships where we eat, drink, and have some limits on why they are good, but we can maintain our minds in the same way even after thirty or forty years without any problems. It is because of that simple maintenance that we can maintain the same mind in the same way even after thirty or forty years.
However, when we go inside someone's filters and get closer to them, we start to see those ugly parts that that person is hiding with difficulty.
When we get closer to someone's soul, we begin to see that person's spiritual nakedness.
In short, beyond that fantasy, we get to see the reality of that person.
Then that fantasy we imagined dissolves.
So we get hurt,
Oh, I didn't think he was like that,
He's not like that, that's how it is.
So we get frustrated with people,
Our hearts get hurt, relationships get boring, and we get angry. 😪
👉🏽But if you don't cross the boundaries of the soul like before, and stay away with the limits like before, you won't see his or her inner self or yours.
💧Then someone might ask, isn't it better for us to understand people's inner self after we've been deceived by them,
Yes, that's good. But it's ugly. And it has its disadvantages.
Because, just as someone gets angry ,
The fact that you know someone else's reality is both personally and mentally harmful to your happiness and well-being, and there is also the risk that that truth will be exposed.
Some friends who were once close to you become enemies because of that "fear".
That's why I simply said
"Don't get too close to people" in the first place.
When someone tries to forcefully infiltrate the inner world of someone and break the fantasy they have imagined about themselves,
"Oh..he is like this or that, and without getting hurt, they get used to allowing people to exist in the images they have imagined. ✌️
Because not only other people's,
even your own inner world is not as beautiful as you show it to the world.
When you just think about how many things you have hidden from the world, you will realize the truth for yourself. I understand.
It is not a difference between him, you, me, it is common to everyone.
That's why I say again,
Don't go into people's hearts through filters.
There are no beautiful things inside people that are visible from the outside..
Don't ask why,
If you want to be happy every day, don't get close to people, that's all...🙏🏻
