07/13/2025
I started this mural on the back of my garage, and now I'm wondering if I should just paint over the whole thing.
My neighbor has been complaining to the city about it for three weeks straight. She says it's "an eyesore that's bringing down property values" and keeps leaving nasty notes on my door about how I'm "ruining the neighborhood aesthetic." Yesterday she actually called the police to see if there were any ordinances against "loud, garish displays."
I thought I was doing something nice. My six-year-old son has autism, and bees are his special interest. He knows everything about them - their life cycles, their importance to ecosystems, how they communicate through dancing. When he has meltdowns, talking about bees is the only thing that calms him down.
He helped me plan every detail of this mural. We spent hours researching the exact colors of monarch butterflies and the anatomy of honeybees. He was so proud, telling everyone at school that his mom was painting his favorite creatures on our house.
But now I'm second-guessing everything. Maybe it is too bright, too childish, too much. Maybe I should have just left the wall boring and gray like everyone else's. I shared it in the DIY community on Tedooo where I sell custom tumblers, and everyone there loved it, but maybe they're just being supportive because we're all creators.
I keep thinking about painting over it with some neutral beige color. Make everyone happy. Keep the peace. But then I look at my son's face when he sees those bees, and I just don't know.
Is it really that ugly? Am I being selfish for wanting one wall in this whole bland subdivision to have some life in it?