07/22/2025
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Tyme Out Letter
To the Dryve Crew,
Hey Dryve Crew,
I’m struggling and could use your real talk to help me figure this out. I’m a husband who’s been married for six years, and I love my wife to pieces. I pour everything into our relationship—cooking, cleaning, handling the kids’ school runs, planning date nights, you name it. I’m not perfect, but I show up every day for her and our family. The problem is, I don’t feel like she respects me as her man.
It’s not like she’s openly dissing me in front of people. It’s more subtle, like she doesn’t see me as the “man of the house.” I think it’s because she makes way more money than I do. She’s got a high-powered job, and I’m proud of her hustle, but it feels like she holds it over me sometimes. When we’re making big decisions—like buying a car or planning a trip—she takes charge and barely asks for my input, like my opinion doesn’t matter. Or she’ll make little comments about how she’s “got this” when I try to step up, and it cuts deep.
I’ve tried talking to her about it, but she says I’m overthinking or that she’s just “independent.” I get that, but it’s wearing me down. I want to feel like we’re true partners, like she sees me as her equal, not just the guy backing her up. It’s even worse around her work friends—she’s all confident and in charge, and I feel like I’m just fading into the background.
Is it her, me, or this money gap messing with us? How do I get her to see me as the man I’m trying to be for her? Should I keep pushing to talk it out, or am I tripping? Please drop some wisdom what’s the move?
Respectfully,
“Feeling Invisible”