12/22/2025
I lost access to my entire business Google account Friday morning.
Every email. Every document. Every client file. Every contract. Over 15 sites where I used my Google login. Everything.
You know what I did?
I closed my laptop.
Made this ridiculous sweater for 's ugly sweater party. Hung out with my sister who was in town. Spent Saturday with my boyfriend. Did not open my laptop once for 48 hours.
Here's what hustle culture would tell you to do:
Panic immediately
Work all weekend to fix it
Cancel plans with people you love
Prove your dedication through your suffering
Let the emergency consume your entire life
Here's what sustainable business actually looks like:
Recognizing that panicking while dysregulated makes terrible decisions
Trusting that Sunday morning will still be Sunday morning
Choosing presence with people you love over performative productivity
Understanding that your nervous system's regulation is more valuable than your weekend hours
The account got sorted this morning. Because of course it did.
But if I'd spent my entire weekend in fight-or-flight mode trying to force a solution? I would have missed my sister's visit. I would have been irritable with my boyfriend. I would have taught my kids that work emergencies always trump people.
And I still would have had to wait until Sunday for the solution anyway.
This is what I mean when I talk about building a business that's worth the consistent effort it requires.
Not the panic. Not the performance. Not the "grind."
The intentional choice to stay grounded even when s**t hits the fan.
Your business will have emergencies. They're inevitable.
But you get to decide who you want to be in those moments.