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12/09/2025

12/02/2025

10 Gender-Inclusive Compliments (and Why They Matter)

So many of us are gathering with friends and family this season — and one of the simplest ways to show care and respect is through the words we choose.

Gender-inclusive compliments are small, everyday signals that say: I see you. I honor who you are. You’re safe with me.

Here are 10 to keep in your back pocket:

1. “You have such great energy.”
2. “You’re so thoughtful.”
3. “Your smile lights up a room.”
4. “I love your confidence.”
5. “You’re really good at that.”
6. “Your style is amazing.”
7. “I love how you show up for people.”
8. “You’re incredibly creative.”
9. “You make people feel welcome.”
10. “I’m grateful for you.”

These kinds of compliments remove assumptions about gender and focus on the person — their kindness, presence, talents, and heart. And for LGBTQ+ people (especially trans and nonbinary folks), gender-inclusive language isn’t just polite… it’s protective. It helps create environments where people can breathe a little easier and feel genuinely affirmed.

A little intention goes a long way — and it’s something every one of us can practice.

12/02/2025

Every December 1 we honor World AIDS Day, a day first observed in 1988 to honor those who have died from AIDS-related illnesses, as well as the millions of people living with HIV/AIDS in the United States and across the globe. ❤️

Misinformation, fear, and government neglect fueled an epidemic that has taken millions of lives around the world, including Morty Manford, gay rights activist and son of PFLAG founder Jeanne Manford.

Today, as we mourn our friends, family members, and peers whose lives were cut short by HIV/AIDS, we re-commit ourselves to supporting the fight to end this epidemic.

For crucial information and resources on HIV/AIDS testing, treatments, and more, visit hiv.gov ❤️

11/30/2025

This training is in-person in MN.

While ICE continues to target our immigrant neighbors, and cities across the country are being occupied by National Guard troops, Minnesotans must step into our shared values of courage, care, and community. We know that we care for us and we keep us safe. Join us on Sunday, December 7 from 1:30 - 5...

11/30/2025

I'm gathering a list of all the q***r artist in this region that sell things so you can shop local for the holiday season and get gay art, make with 100% real gay. If you know an artist or are an artist, still looking to expand. Hoping to have as many people possible by December 1st so folks have as much time as possible to buy or order gifts!

11/30/2025

11/29/2025

Hey Minot Artists! Submit your items! Deadline is SOON!

Hey friends! Do you know a q***r North Dakota artist that sells art? I'm looking for them. I plan to have a page up by Dec 1st, so people can start to look at holiday shopping and support local q***r artist in the effort.

This list will be exclusively folks who live in North Dakota or on the border. I'll create a central website page for people to be able to look at all the artists, get a demo of their style, and a link to their storefront.

If you know a q***r artist, please have them get in touch with me. This is my first time doing this, so I don't totally know what it might look like. But as holiday shopping starts in earnest after Thanksgiving, I want to be ready with options. I'll probably have it up with anyone I get, just before December, but I imagine with shipping and ordering the earlier the better.

If you have any questions let me know.

11/27/2025

11/21/2025

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11/21/2025