
01/23/2025
Itโs become clear to me that a lot of my ๐ friends are scared for what the future may hold.
Some fear they may lose the ability to marry who they would like (regardless of s*x).
Some fear losing access to healthcare.
Some fear for their partner and their own safety.
First and foremost, my heart goes out to you โค๏ธ You are not alone.
As a โstraight passingโ bis*xual man, it would be pretty easy to keep quiet and pretend that thereโs nothing wrong right now. But I cannot do that in good faith.
Hereโs why:
- I do NOT believe that every Republican/Trump voter is against LGBTQ people.
- BUT, sloppy actions by republican leadership has empowered certain groups that are most definitely against things like same s*x marriage.
- This is very unsettling to me. Homophobia and racism (things I felt had been cast to the shadows) seem to be making a comeback.
- If I want to hold my boyfriendโs hands in public, it feels like I need to be extra vigilant for our own safety. More so now than ever.
- It feels like we are taking some big steps forward in this country, while also taking some gigantic steps back.
At the end of the day, I love this country and I am proud to be an American. And I can only hope that the next few years end up bringing prosperity - to everyone.
I know for a lot of us that doesnโt seem to be the case. If youโre feeling fearful about the future, I want to encourage you to make your mental & physical health your #1 priority.
Hit the treadmill.
Lift the weights.
Take that boxing class.
Do the damn meditation.
Keep the journal and pen ready and available.
Not only will this help to keep your mind sharp, but it will also prepare you to (god forbid) defend yourself better in the event you need to.ย
Now is NOT the time to creep into the background of society ๐
๐ปโโ๏ธ Please, do what you can to take care of yourself.
Scary times need to be met with people who are ready to rise to the occasion.
If you ever need an ear to vent to, know that my messages are always open.ย
Keep your chin up beautiful people โจ
With love,ย
Andrew