10/04/2026
Over the summer, I found myself staying at a guest house with the most beautiful, healthy flowers. These caught my eye—and if you look closely, you can see a bee 🐝 right in the center of one of them, almost perfectly camouflaged.
Then this weekend, I was at a garden center choosing perennials for a bare patch of ground next to my garage. Now there’s a little pop of purple there that makes me smile every time I see it.
It reminded me of a trip I took to Vietnam years ago. I was struck by how much people valued fresh-cut flowers. At the time, my very practical self wondered: Why spend money on flowers when they’re a luxury?
And they are a luxury.
But maybe they’re also something more.
Flowers connect us to the natural world—the bees buzzing, the seasons changing, things blooming and eventually dying back. And inside our homes, they can transform an ordinary space simply by being beautiful.
One of my values today is beauty. So it makes sense that I’m drawn to flowers.
But I’m not sure beauty would have made my list 20 years ago. There was a time when I prioritized the practical much more heavily.
And that’s something I find fascinating about values: they aren’t necessarily fixed. As our lives change, what matters most to us can change too.
In Yellow Brick Legacy’s five-week Legacy Circles, we spend time identifying the values that matter to us now—not the ones we think we’re supposed to have, or the ones that guided an earlier version of our lives.
Because once you know what you value, you can start asking a bigger question:
Does the life I’m living actually reflect it?
For me, apparently, part of the answer is planting more flowers. 🌸
What’s one value that has become more important to you as you’ve gotten older?