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I am Julian Women’s Empowerment
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Daughter of the Prophet
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12/20/2025

Thanks to Feminism eyes are getting opened.

Please read this 👇 and drop your 2cents.
12/20/2025

Please read this 👇 and drop your 2cents.

I made a simple post yesterday advising men to work hard and stating that a man’s biological and financial prime is betw...
12/20/2025

I made a simple post yesterday advising men to work hard and stating that a man’s biological and financial prime is between 20 and 40. I was being generous, I should have said 35, but I extended it because of economic realities.

Instead of engaging maturely, many men flooded my comments and inbox with wa iling.
For generations, men have freely set standards for women, she must be young, be hardworking, don’t be a liability.

What do you bring to the table?

These standards were imposed on women without mercy.
Now that women are demanding proper treatment and asking men to get serious early, just as women over 30 and single mothers have long been jud ged, the te ars have started. When men set har sh standards, they are praised. When women do the same, we are called bi. tter by the same pai ned and delusional men.

We are just starting, and we will keep setting standards. If between ages 20 and 40 a man hasn’t built a career path or laid a solid foundation, he has likely wasted his prime. Nature, society, and the labor market made it so. Pray for yourself.

Your comments only fuel the conversation. Your cries boost the reach. Many 100k-follower pages can’t pull these numbers.

God bless those who comment intelligently. To the rest, keep cr ying. I’m not stopping anytime soon. As long as women are press ured by unrealistic standards, we will keep speaking.

We, too, will set our standards

Marriage is not for just anyone who wants to marry or feels pressured because of age. Marriage is about companionship, g...
12/20/2025

Marriage is not for just anyone who wants to marry or feels pressured because of age. Marriage is about companionship, growth, and supporting each other.
Any marriage where one person is doing 150% and the other is doing 20% is not marriage. If one partner is faithful and the other is not, or one is giving their best while the other gives nothing, that is not marriage.
Marriage needs open communication and honesty. If you can’t speak freely, express yourself, or if one person is controlling the other and stopping their growth, that is not marriage. Anything that limits your growth goes against the purpose of marriage.
Marriage should be built on unity, shared effort, and commitment. Being married and still cheating or sleeping around goes against what marriage stands for.
Marriage is meant to serve both partners. That’s why two people become one. Whatever you’re doing outside the home that you can’t do within your marriage is against the principles of marriage.
The reason marriage looks the way it does today is because people enter it without understanding that marriage requires mutual service, effort, cooperation, and commitment from both partners.

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Have you all seen the video of this boy? For those who haven’t, it shows a boy deliberately throwing stones at his mothe...
12/20/2025

Have you all seen the video of this boy? For those who haven’t, it shows a boy deliberately throwing stones at his mother and her other children inside a car. He kept aiming at the windscreen until he shattered it. They had to record him, and he was later sent to foster care.

Some said it is bad parenting, other said an absent father and there is another group lazily trying to blame single motherhood.

Well, I choose bad blood. This woman clearly has other children who are nothing like this. From the video, you can see that she takes care of her children by herself, and the others are not vio_lent or out of control. But this particular one is different, very different.

The truth is all children cannot turn out the same under the same roof. You cannot be impregnated by a bandit and then expect the child to magically turn out well overnight. Sometimes, bad blood happens. Yes, it happens.

There can be genetic transfer of negative traits, aggressive tendencies, and behavioral issues can be inherited. Parenting matters, yes, but biology also matters. Ignoring that reality just because it makes people uncomfortable does not change the truth.

It's a wrap, we post this for record purposes no chochoco here.
12/19/2025

It's a wrap, we post this for record purposes no chochoco here.

Someone blessed me, I want to do the same.Don't be shy let's get it rolling👇
12/19/2025

Someone blessed me, I want to do the same.Don't be shy let's get it rolling👇

I want to quickly address this comment because it is very unfair and unbalanced.When I speak on this platform, I do not ...
12/19/2025

I want to quickly address this comment because it is very unfair and unbalanced.
When I speak on this platform, I do not speak from vibes or assumptions. I speak from experience, research, and statistics. There are many men who are ready for marriage and genuinely looking for the right woman. Some are in relationships they do not want to progress. Some are in the wrong relationships and need to leave to meet the right person. So if you have not met the right person yet, and you do not have options you will believe him.It does not mean good men do not exist.

Let me be very clear. As of now, around the 19th of December, I have over 40 suitors. Men who have shown clear interest. I have already set aside a lot of them, and I am still considering others. I say this not to brag, but to correct a dangerous lie.

If anyone is telling you that there are fewer matured men ready for marriage compared to matured women they are lying to you. The issue is not availability; the issue is positioning.Many times, it simply means you are not in the right environment.

From next year, I will be introducing you to platforms and opportunities with these where you will meet quality men. I have a lot to offer, my focus will be on value for women, growth, clarity, standards, and self-worth.

That said, this year is not about chasing relationships blindly. This year is about healing, self-reflection, stability, and self-development. Build yourself. Think about your life. Invest in your confidence, your appearance, your mindset, and your direction.

I have said this repeatedly: If you are a full-time housewife who still goes out to work, that job should be an added ad...
12/19/2025

I have said this repeatedly: If you are a full-time housewife who still goes out to work, that job should be an added advantage, not an extra burden.
You cannot go to work as a woman, then return home to work nonstop, 365 days a year, as if you are the only adult in the house, without his active participation, yet you actively contribute financially.

Many of you are exhausting yourselves without realizing it. You age faster than your peers, and burn out, while the man ends up with excess resources to pursue his lu st ful desires outside the marriage.

Your husband has enough money for side chics because you are sponsoring the home with your income, overworking yourself, and aging beyond your years. The side chick benefits from resources you helped free up, without lifting a finger.

If you were not pouring so much money into the household, your husband would not have excess funds or energy to spend elsewhere.
This is why many of you keep cr y ing. You believe that giving more will make him love you more, but instead, you are only hur ting yourself.

Save your money. Take care of yourself. Beautify yourself. Buy wigs. Invest in your own well-being. You are giving too much.

Rest dear woman make you nor kpeme.

😲😲 It is finished. This woman posted on TikTok that she was leaving her marriage. In the video, you can see her carrying...
12/19/2025

😲😲 It is finished. This woman posted on TikTok that she was leaving her marriage. In the video, you can see her carrying her load. What surprised me wasn't that she is moving out, but the comment section.

Many commenters told her to return the souvenirs to the man's house.
Read the comments under the post for yourself. This generation of women aren't tolerating shi anymore.

I do not need to say much or try to prove this point because it is evident in our society. Many men remarry almost immed...
12/19/2025

I do not need to say much or try to prove this point because it is evident in our society. Many men remarry almost immediately after the demise of their wives, while many women remain single and do not remarry because women truly marry for love.

When you claim to love something, replacing it is never easy. You are not quick to replace what you genuinely cherish. There is usually a period of grief and healing before you can open your heart to someone else and attempt to fill the space left by the person you lost.

However, when someone is replaced immediately, it suggests there was no real vacuum, no deep emotional attachment. It shows that the person may not have been truly valued or loved. This is what many men do because many men do not marry for love. They marry for service, survival, or to satisfy selfish interests and desire.

Bottomline: Whatever you do as a woman put your interest first, everyone will move on so fast without you. Self preservation is very important.

12/18/2025

That was so close, the faya was like mind your business.

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