06/13/2026
Letter to the Editor: The Student They Gave Up On
To the editor:
I have been following the debate over public school funding, vouchers, and the constant attacks on public education in North Carolina.
This debate is personal for me.
I am a former Gaston County student who attended high school in the 1980s. Academically, I was not struggling. I consistently made the honor roll. On the PSAT, I was told I scored among the highest students in the Gaston County Public School.
But I was also struggling in other ways.
I was dealing with trauma. I was skipping school. I was making poor choices. I missed an extraordinary number of days.
Looking back decades later, I often wonder what might have happened if someone had looked beyond my attendance record and seen my academic potential.
What if a counselor had seen a student maintaining strong grades despite overwhelming personal challenges and asked a different question?
Not, “How do we punish this student?”
But, “How do we help this student succeed?”
Instead, I was held back because of attendance, and then months later, placed back in the correct grade because I had made the honor roll. I would drop out a year later.
Years later, a younger relative of mine sought guidance from the same counselor when considering dropping out. According to that relative, the same counselor suggested that dropping out might be a reasonable option.
That still raises a troubling question for me.
How many students have slipped through the cracks because the adults responsible for guiding them failed to see their potential — or worse, helped sabotage it?
This is one reason the debate over public school funding matters.
Not because public schools are perfect. They are not.
Not because every school employee makes the right decision or belongs anywhere near children. They do not.
But because students facing trauma, poverty, unstable homes, substance abuse, learning challenges, and other obstacles need more support, not less.
They need unbiased and competent counselors.
They need objective social workers.
They need appropriate mentors.
They need teachers who have the time and resources to see more than a test score or an attendance record.
Today, some conservatives argue that public schools should simply “fix the system.”
But fixing a system requires investment.
It requires people.
It requires resources.
And it requires a belief that every child is worth the effort.
The student in this story eventually earned a GED, served in the military, built a career, and spent decades contributing to his community.
But the question remains:
How many other students with similar potential never got that second chance?
As lawmakers debate school funding, vouchers, and education policy, that may be the most important question of all.
Are public school students being allowed to fail because of government policy choices?
Signed,
A former Gaston County public school student
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