Motivational Adviceologist

07/19/2025

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04/21/2025

Motivational Monday….. It’s time to unlock a new level of peace and happiness by reevaluating uncertain relationships that have likely exhausted their purpose.

Self Love is the best love…. Once you get to a point where everything about you has to be in pristine condition, you won’t B/S from people.

Motivational Adviceologist

04/17/2025

Society has ruined our children! Gentle parenting to me was suppose to help our children feel supported and loved without fear! It was suppose to minimize severe child abuse. Gentle parenting, has ruined our children and let me tell you why! They think they can challenge adults! They talk back as if they are paying bills. The system have given them a voice to make abuse claims when your discipline is far from that.
I agree with children having a voice to express themselves, but that expression has its limits and a lot of parents are at their wits end because their homes are now being controlled by outside sources who don’t see their day to day parenting struggles with a defiant child. Our kids are doomed if gentle parenting means I can’t s***k you or redirect you with a belt if I need to.

Let me make this clear, Kelsey does not get physical punishments, but she knows that if I have go there, I will and I’ll wait for the judge to come pick her up if it poses a problem.

Untouchable kids end up in prison, severe trouble or unalived.

What do you think as a parent that your limits are when it comes to your kids? Do you feel like the system should set up rules for your home when your child is clearly turning your house upside down?

04/04/2025

Be Honest,

As a woman, have you ever been afraid to not give someone your number out of fear that they may get aggressive with you and make a scene?

03/21/2025

Self Care Friday…. Join me on my Journey Phancee Revelations…

Solitude will lead you to question the relationships you once considered rock-solid. It allows you to step back and genuinely process your emotions when your so-called friend made that remark. It sheds new light on all the people you helped who didn't merit your assistance. It makes you aware that, throughout this time, you were alone, yet you were always a reliable and welcoming presence for them. My personal experience has been that 2025 is a year of revelation.
To put it simply: that individual is not your friend.

I challenge you to conduct a weekly emotional analysis of your relationships. Whether it's family members or close friends, consider how those individuals you allow in your life make you feel. Are they occupying space that could be better utilized by authentic people? Have they made a comment that brought tears to your eyes, but you dismissed it, attributing it to their typical behavior? Choose your peace wisely, as it is directly impacted by the people you permit to influence it.

Motivational Adviceologist… Phancee So Real

03/09/2025

This was chilling to watch! Leave. Seek Support. Stay off Social Media trying to prove a point to a world that don’t know your real life. I did not
know any of these couples, but I do
know that there are couples that fight to stay together to save themselves from embarrassment and disappointment! They are so busy trying to please family members and friends that value their relationships and love to see them together. Behind closed doors they are struggling to stay together. It don’t always end well. It’s okay to start over. It’s okay to get a new perspective on what Healthy Love feels and looks like, but it’s never okay to stay in a place that gives you so much uncertainty and doubt. If this I you, please take heed. So many lives lost over trying to prove point to a world that has to grieve your death. Prayers to all these families and also to those of you that refuse to leave.

TikTok Couples That Were So Toxic They Killed Each OtherWe didn't see any signs, no signals. It wasn't like she was coming around us with black eyes or anyth...

01/20/2025

Safe space!

We all need a safe space right, but what people don’t tell you about a safe space is that you have to be willing to take accountability and be open to the truth. A safe space is a place where you feel that you are being heard and whomever is in that space allows you to be your true self. A safe space should not be a place that coddles you or agree with you making decisions that are not good for you. We all want this from our friends and family, but a lot of times, you turn your back on the ones that welcomed you and your situation with open arms, but also gave you constructive feedback.

My safe space must be able to help me grow! I want to be groomed for what to expect going forth and the many obstacles I may have to overcome to get to my mentally healthy self. I want to be pieced back together so I can thrive. I don’t need people telling me what I want to hear because I consider them to be my safe space. So please before you go down this journey of choosing your safe space, think about what you really are expecting to achieve from those conversations. Are you truly ready for the next steps or do you just want someone that will agree with decisions that could affect you long termed! Motivational Adviceologist

01/07/2025

I wish R.I.P sentiments meant the same exact thing while you are living. Just remember the dead cannot see nor hear, therefore hold them Dear when they are Here!

12/24/2024

Sometimes your friend gotta say, I know times are hard, here is something just for your time! I appreciate you❤️ Motivational Adviceologist

10/29/2024

10/27/2024

Happy Sunday! New Week, New Goals & New Beginnings. Mental Health Clarity is so important.