09/11/2026
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Cousin’s Cruel Ultimatum: Calling Out Her Selfishness, Justified or Too Harsh?
I know the title looks bad, but hear me out. This is my first time posting here, and excuse my typing ahead of time. This happened a few months back, but the subject was brought back up recently, and while I myself feel I'm right, I recognize I may have been unjustly harsh in the delivery.
A few years ago my cousin started seeing a married man, he eventually left his 4 year old son(at the time) and his wife of 10 years for her. They marry soon after and have been together ever since. I hadn't seen my cousin in over 10 years, and was fairly excited to see her, her kids, as well as the rest of my family. After a good meal, a day of visiting and reminiscing we were all sitting around a bonfire drinking spiked hot chocolate and just laughing and 'shootin the s__t. Someone brought up the subject on how she met her husband.
She said she met him at work, that they had worked on a project together and she found him extremely attractive(he is, I'll give him that)and she knew he was married w) a child, but didnt care and decided she wanted him and took him. Now, to me, this was bad enough, but......
She proceeded in adding that after they married, that they tried the weekend "visitation thing" with his son, but she didn't like him. She wanted a child of her own, and didn't want a constant reminder of his life before, so she told her husband that she would only have his children and...