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You have direct access to the throne room of GRACE!! Walk boldly as a daughter.The bridegroom has never left you.He will...
09/17/2026

You have direct access to the throne room of GRACE!! Walk boldly as a daughter.

The bridegroom has never left you.

He will inform your next thought, action, prayer, emotion, work and deed.

He is all you need to begin shifting your home.

Drop “I will stand” below if you haven’t started or completed our 7-Day Stand for Your Marriage Challenge.

09/17/2026

There’s no such thing as selective sanctification…

1 Thessalonians says THROUGH AND THROUGH.

It is not confined to just one area of life while chaos rules the rest. That is not how sanctification works.

God does not sanctify only your spirit
while leaving your soul ungoverned.

He does not receive your repentance
while leaving your emotions in control.

He does not call you holy while confusion,
instability, and unresolved anger dominate your marriage.

If sanctification is thorough, then it reaches:

— the way you think
— the way you respond
— the way you govern emotions
— the way you walk in repentance
— the way you uphold righteousness inside covenant

Read that again.

This does not mean you never feel anger, grief, or pressure.
It means those things no longer govern you.

Sanctification produces order.

It produces clarity.
It produces fruit.

Not perfection, but VISIBLE change.

God is faithful to sanctify us completely.

Through and through.

But sanctification requires surrender, not justification.

And over time, the fruit will always tell the truth.

👉🏽 If you want me to personally walk you through complete sanctification and freedom in your life and marriage comment “Fast And Pray”, and I will send you a link to join me for 5-days of fasting and prayer.

09/17/2026

We’ve seen wives SAVE and KILL their marriage with their words.

If anyone thinks himself to be religious [scrupulously observant of the rituals of his faith], and does not control his tongue but deludes his own heart, this person’s religion is worthless (futile, barren). James 1:26

09/16/2026

Repentance isn’t “I repented to God and said sorry to my spouse.” Repentance is I changed the entire belief system and governance system of my mind, will and emotions.

Literally renouncing and turning away from that which produced the unrighteous fruit in your marriage.

Spouses who have a true revelation of repentance outlast any attack against their marriage. Why? Because when the enemy tries to confront them in their day of disaster, he has no open door or territory to use against them.

Drop “prayer” below if you want my wife and I to pray and intercede for true repentance and breakthrough in your marriage.

09/16/2026

God’s presence, favor and provision are never in question. He. Will. Bring. The. Rain. But, what the rain produces MATTERS and carries eternal weight.

A son of God knows His inheritance and position. He sees his sonship before his title of husband.
09/15/2026

A son of God knows His inheritance and position.

He sees his sonship before his title of husband.

Any emotion that leads you into action in your marriage before submitting it to God BECOMES THE MASTER THAT YOU SERVE.Yo...
09/15/2026

Any emotion that leads you into action in your marriage before submitting it to God BECOMES THE MASTER THAT YOU SERVE.

You are a slave to the one you OBEY.

For many marriages, “the one OBEYED” is the emotions of the spouse that lacks self control.

Do you not know that when you continually offer yourselves to someone to do his will, you are the slaves of the one whom you obey, either [slaves] of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness (right standing with God)? —Romans 6:16

God created your emotions with purpose:

Not for anger.....but for righteous indignation (Ephesians 4:26).

Not for sadness.....but for godly sorrow (2 Corinthians 7:10).

Not for self happiness.....but for true joy and gladness (Psalm 16:11).

Not for avoiding conflict.....but for establishing true peace (Colossians 3:15).

Many spouses run rampant with ungoverned emotions.

Instead of dying to self and living in Christ, they let their emotions rule their:

Thoughts
Decisions
Interactions
Responses
Feelings

“The heart is deceitful above all things” (Jer 17:9). Unless your emotions are crucified with Christ, they will RULE you instead of SERVE you.

👉🏽 Spouses, if you are tired of your emotions running your marriage, exhausted by the constant highs and lows, and ready to stop being mastered by your feelings—

Comment "FAST AND PRAY" below.

We will send you our free 5-Day Fast & Pray Challenge where we will help you submit your emotions to God, renew your mind with His Word, and begin breaking the strongholds that keep you bound.

You do not have to remain enslaved to fear, anger, anxiety, bitterness, or despair.

Remember, you are a slave to the one you obey.

It is time to submit your emotions to God and allow His Spirit to lead your marriage.

09/15/2026

Wives, you are the only one who gets to be YOUR husband’s wife.

Think about that for a second.

How often do we look into someone else’s marriage and think how wonderful it must be that their husband does x, y, or z? How easy it is to think, Wouldn’t it be nice if my marriage looked more like theirs?

Yet when it comes to your own husband, it can be easy to get annoyed by his preferences, his specific asks, or even his advice about what would make your marriage and home better.

But you weren’t called to be someone else’s wife.

You get to be YOUR husband’s wife.

If you want YOUR home and YOUR marriage to be filled with peace, joy, and life, then you have to learn YOUR husband.

Learn what matters to him.
Learn what makes him feel honored.
Learn what brings peace into your home.
Learn what he needs from you as his wife.

And then make the will-level decision to stop measuring your marriage against someone else’s and start becoming excellent at the marriage God actually gave you.

There is so much life available in a marriage when a wife decides, “I’m going to learn MY husband, honor MY husband, and build MY home well.”

During this time, let your flesh die and your spirit come into the knowledge and revelation of the heart and will of the...
09/12/2026

During this time, let your flesh die and your spirit come into the knowledge and revelation of the heart and will of the Father.

09/08/2026

To all of the standing wives 💕 there is hope!

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