
08/17/2025
JUST 🛑❗️❗️❗️
If you can trust your partner not to cheat on you… you can trust yourself to shoot the shot. Let me explain.
Last night, I had an epiphany. "STOP CHECKING TO SEE IF YOU'LL CHEAT"
Why do I instantly chase the cue ball with my eyes the second I pull the trigger?
Why am I already thinking about where it might end up before the object ball even drops?
And why—when I miss—do I let my inner voice tear me apart?
“I suck. I hate this game. Why did I do that? Should’ve stuck with ping pong.” 🏓🤣
Then I thought about my wife. I love her. I trust her completely. There's no 🤳 CHECKING or seeing where she is at ever moment in time.
My days are calmer because I never carry doubt about our loyalty, love, and trust.
And because of that peace, I make better decisions and execute better in life.
So here’s the connection to your p🎱🎱l game… 👇
In this game, you have Self 1 (the thinker) and Self 2 (the doer).
Self 1 plans 📝 the shot.
Self 2—loaded with hundreds or thousands of hours of muscle 💪🧠 memory—executes it. 🛠
If you trust your partner in life, you can trust your partner at the table—YOU and YOU.
Stop second-guessing every move. Trust your current ability in the moment,
and use your practice time to push your limits further.
🚨Me checking to 👀 where the ball was headed before the ball dropped is like checking my wife's phone 🤳. ZERO TRUST
🚨Not being confident in my stroke is like NOT trusting my marriage. ZERO TRUST
🚨Berating myself after a missed shot compares to my made up doubts in my relationship. ZERO TRUST
Once this clicked I found out how important TRUST is in this game.
Because without trust—between you and yourself—your whole game will crumble.
So… trust your game. Trust yourself. And most importantly…
Thank you to my partners:
MY POOL STUFF 👇👇👇
My Pool Bag
https://jflowerscues.com/product/butterfly/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My Glove
https://jflowerscues.com/product/jflowers-pool-glove/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My Extension
https://jflowerscues.com/product/extension/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My Taom Chalk
https://jflowerscues.com/product/taom-v10-chalk/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My Jump Cue
https://jflowerscues.com/product/jf-jp2-power-jump/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
https://jflowerscues.com/product/jmpr-red-jump-cue/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My Break Cue
https://jflowerscues.com/product/red-brkr-break-cue/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My Playing Cue
https://jflowerscues.com/product/rodney-morris-legends-cue/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My SMO - CARBON FIBER SHAFT
https://jflowerscues.com/product/s-m-o-carbon-fiber-shaft/ref/ThePoolTryHard/
My SMO-W (wood shaft) https://jflowerscues.com/product/smo-wood-shaft-low-deflection/ref/ThePoolTryHard/