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DoorDash Community, 2328 Lake Shore Drive Sylvan Beach, New York(NY), New City, NY (2025)

09/17/2025

Opinions?
For context. Pink and red are a couple. Myself and blue have unfriended pink for blatant abusive and controlling behavior and pink has rallied her gf, red, to be very against and hostile towards me and blue because we unfriended her girlfriend (pink). Everyone was friends before all of this.

09/17/2025

my roommate is insane?

omg where to begin. this whole thing has been a nightmare for me and my other roommate and it’s not even done yet. i (f20) needed to move out of my family’s place and was connected to these two girls through a common housing worker. i met A (f24), my awesome roommate and we viewed a place together which is the place we’re at now. i didn’t actually meet B (f18), until we moved in but i talked to her on the phone once. very stupid i know. what’s extra stupid is that she told me she has a criminal record for assault but i believed her when she said she changed and is working on herself. problems kept becoming apparent the longer i lived with B….

she has someone over every. single. day. just all these people coming and going all the time. she’s 18, so all her friends are literal children and they all come over to get drunk and eat our food and watch tv outside of my room. does she clean up after any of these people? of course not. recently she had like 6 different people over with 24 hrs and one of them stole a bag from a girl at the gym. she left, and the owner of the bag tracked her airpods to our house. the upstairs neighbours got involved too and were very upset. B and her friends all swore up and down they didn’t have her bag but the airpod tracker showed that they were obviously here. the police were called and her and her friends left and i had to deal with the policewoman and let her search the house and answer all these questions. it was terrible and really embarrassing. we know the airpods are still in the house to this day because the girl could connect her phone to them in the house but the police gave up looking.

she has vacuumed and mopped only once since living here. and she didn’t even mop properly, i had to redo it because the floor looked worse than how it was before. not once cleaned the fridge, counters, stovetop, microwave, or bathroom. and she makes these areas very messy. i try to wait until she does it herself but ive learned it’ll never happen and i eventually can’t stand it anymore and clean it myself. she also doesn’t do her dishes, her bf does them (and doesn’t clean them properly). and when i ask her to do them she’ll only do a few and then leave the rest. and they’re not even clean there’s still food on them… or she just keeps dishes in her room until there’s mold growing on them.

her bf basically lived here for 2 and a half months. i could seriously count the amount of times he WASNT here on one hand. he didn’t pay rent, ate our food but didn’t contribute to groceries, showered here every other day. turns out he had been assaulting my roommate in her sleep this whole time and she broke up with him. they would have really loud messy fights and would choke her in front of me all the time. it was like a s*x thing for them and even she said not to do it in front of me when i expressed it made me uncomfortable and he kept doing it. his friends also maced her with bear spray for talking bad about him. i found out they got back together when i saw her sneak him out of her window and walk around the house. i had also seen someone get out of the shower with her the previous night but assumed it was this other guy she was seeing. so that means her abusive and violent ex stayed the night without any of us knowing, even after we and our other roommate clearly expressed that we never wanted him at the house ever again.

today was my fu***ng breaking point. my other roommate heard them having s*x and when we asked if he was here she said he was staying over because she felt bad that he was having problems at his house. i am like actually livid. now she absolutely hates me for daring to be upset at her behaviour. me and my other roommate are writing an email to our property manager tomorrow to try to get her out soon. she has said previously that she’ll move out because she knows she’s not a good roommate but i’m like a year… which is our whole lease?

this whole thing has been using up so much of my mental energy these last months i can’t wait until she’s gone. i can’t even relax in my own house. theres been so much more stuff but i’ve already wrote so much. sorry for any typos.

09/17/2025

my roommates put hot glue in the lock on my door

09/17/2025

Roommate wants 4br to herself: UPDATE 3

Unfortunately this update brings little good news— in fact, I am now so annoyed and at my wits end that I will be escalating and complaining until I get my way.

Let’s start with this weekend, shall we. I stopped by my storage unit to grab a few things. One of those things being my PC. Im starting a remote position and need it for work. There’s simply no room for me to bring my desk so I decide that I will be moving one of her boxes to make room for my monitor, keyboard, and mouse. And I did just that! Pictured above you can see my disgusting setup lol. I was able to get my work done yesterday night and all was well.

Later that night I am out in the common room and S approaches me.

“Would you be able to move your computer? I use those bins for cooking”

“I would but there is literally no room for me to fit a desk in here.”

“Do you want me to move my things?”

I simply do not understand how someone has this much and insists that they need and use all of it. I moved my things. She pushed her table all of 6 inches. Some of you might say that I should have kept it there and stood my ground. I get that and my plan is to just move the box when I need it and put it back when I’m done working. Because I found out something this morning that has truly set me off.

Today, N and I received another update from the rental company. You can read what they wrote us in the second image. How I chose to read it was:

“We know S has been breaking the lease and has been antagonistic towards you guys, but she’s moving out in 2 weeks so we actually solved the problem :)”

Actually no. No problem was resolved, in fact it was made worse. This enraged me more than anything S has ever done. June homes basically told us to go f**k ourselves and pay the full price of the rent. Lol not on my watch. Immediately upon receiving this message I call their support line and I am connected with a man who can essentially guarantee nothing.

I explained to him that I don’t understand how they are expecting me to just let this slide when she is literally breaking the lease by having her things in the room. I will not be paying full price when I cannot use a large part of the space I am paying for. I Karen-ed out on him. He said that I likely will not get any sort of refund whatsoever. I am going to absolutely make sure that is not the case.

After calling I looked to see if they had physical offices in manhattan, as I was in the area for a job interview. I walked to two address that were listed for them and it seemed that neither were correct.

Quite frankly, it is a slap in the face to just let this slide without any sort of compensation. She is literally breaking a contract. I wonder if I can escalate this legally, because I am unsure if they will listen to me. I included a couple of screenshots of the lease that I think would be helpful in my case. Let me know if there are things that I should be looking for in the lease that would give me a better case!

At this point it is beyond S and I am just now so annoyed with June Homes. The man on the phone said they would resolve this later today but we will see.

09/17/2025

roommates ate my birthday cake
i am an international grad student, living thousands of miles away from my family. i love cake and being away from family means i don’t really get cake over the entire year because lack of any occasion. fortunately on my birthday my brother sent me cake through an online order, it was a big cake from sams club(the 10inch tres leches). my roommates were aware of it being my birthday and no one wished me which is fine i guess, in the evening i invited all 3 of them to cut the cake, they showed up, they just stood up there without any expressions when i cut the cake, no birthday wishes or anything. i was torn apart and it was just sad. anyway i gave them some. next day i invited my girlfriend and few of my actual friends for a small party. These people didn’t help me at all as i was cleaning the living room for the guests, or showed the decency to put or take their own stuff, and just sat there on the couch watch me vacuum and organize the room. at the party as my girlfriend also brought me a smaller cake, some part of that and about half of this big cake was also remaining with leftover food. i put it in the fridge after everyone went home after the party and was planning on giving some to my girlfriend’s roommates who are actually very nice people and keeping rest for myself to enjoy for a couple of days. i wake the next day to see already the half of what was left was gone during the night including all the leftovers. i thought thats fine, maybe i dont give cake to the gfs roommates and my roommates are now done with it. i ate a tiny piece and went to school and later had my part time job at the uni, came back late in the night around 8:30pm and all of it was gone including a heart shaped donut my girlfriend had brought for me. it was all very sad and weird. who does that? had a regular video call with my mum, she knows i like cake, and said at the end of the call that yayy now you finally get to have some for a couple of days, told her its gone. she was visibly sad and mad at my roommates.

09/17/2025

My roommate thinks it's funny to trigger my tourettes to say the N word
Edit 2: Since people keep coming back to this post I thought I'd let y'all know; 11 months later and I'm very happily living by myself with 0 roommates!

My roommate (30s m) and I (26f) are both white, I have coprelalia which is the rude version of tourettes. My roommate thinks the N word is just the most hilarious thing ever, he thinks it's even funnier to trigger my disability in a way that forces me to say a racial slur that I don't want to say. I have repeatedly told him that 1, I don't want to say the N word regardless of if it's voluntary or not and 2, the more I tic the N word the more often it will happen randomly and the more difficult it is to supress it in public. I cannot seem to explain to him that ticcing the N word in public can actually put me in serious danger, not everyone wants to hear "I have tourettes" after I tic something offensive, especially when it comes to racial slurs

Idk what to do at this point other than just avoid him and move out when the lease ends

Edit: holy s**t this blew up. I'm going to try and clear up some misconceptions I'm seeing in the comments.

I've seen a lot of people accusing me of being racist for having an N word tic. Coprolalia takes what I subconciously perceive as socially inappropriate and forces me to say it. It doesn't make me say what I'm thinking, it doesn't make me say what I want to say, it usually makes me say things I really really do not want to say. I've never voluntarily said the N word, I also never said "Bob Doll" before it became one of my most common tics and yet it happens frequently. There is a tremendous amount of documentation on coprolalia, if you don't believe me I encourage you to educate yourselves on the condition before berating me for something you don't understand

Some people are asking how it's possible for someone else to trigger a tic. Tics can be triggered by any number of things. Stress is probably the biggest one, if I'm anxious about ticcing something specific it makes it far more likely to tic that specific thing. Quoting tics is nearly a guarantee to get me to tic whatever you're quoting, if someone says "Bob Doll" or even just "Bob" I'm going to tic "Bob Doll". My roommate is saying the N word to trigger that specific tic. I have a few other random triggers, extended eye contact makes me tic "c*nt", fist bumps cause "f**k you" and just seeing a very tall woman I know causes me to tic "big woman, biiig"

A few people have dug into my profile, they saw that I've made posts about being autistic and having dyslexia. According to these people I must be fake because apparently you can't be autistic, have dyslexia and tourettes all at once. Tourettes, autism, dyslexia and ADHD (I also have that) all have very high comorbitiy rates. It's extremely common for people with autism to have ADHD and nearly every single person I've ever met with ADHD has dyslexia. Tourettes is less common but still has a high comorbitiy rate with both ADHD and autism. ADHD and autism, ADHD and dyslexia, tourettes and autism

There's a lot of people who think this is funny. I find that absolutely fu***ng appaling for a number of reasons. First off, anyone with a maturity level beyond a middle schooler can understand that a white person saying a racial slur is not funny. Additionally, you have no idea how humiliating it is for someone to play with your disability as a way to amuse themselves, it's fu***ng awful. I can't imagine the people who do think it's funny have enough empathy to even hear what I'm saying but Jesus Christ what the f**k. You're laughing at something that genuinely puts my life and career at risk

My roommate is a POS, I'm not able to move yet but hopefully in 4 months I will be leaving with my partner and one of the roommates I actually like. I don't want to escalate anything, I only see him a few times a week and some of the suggestions people have made (ear defenders, ignoring him) should do the trick just fine until I can move and never speak to him again

The negative comments have really been getting to me, I probably just shouldn't be interacting with them but it really sucks seeing people with absolutely no understanding of tourettes judge me for my disability. For the most part comments have been really kind and supportive, I really appreciate all the nice people here. My situation is pretty awful but I'll be ok till I'm able to move. Thanks to everyone who's been nice and especially thank you to those who are clearing up misconceptions about tourettes for me. Y'all are awesome

09/17/2025

I'm the only one who cooks in this house and I have no room for groceries!! 🤬

09/17/2025

my roommate the thief 🥰🥰
repost had to blur names - but i was gone for 3 days and this happens!

09/17/2025

My roommate has been trying to break into my room

I’ve been living in hell these past couple months, my roommate who is a 50 year old man has been at my neck non stop. I replaced my locks 2 weeks ago because he keeps entering my room. Today I noticed these on my room door, these are clearly knife marks. He won’t leave me alone and idk why. He has Bpd and other mental issues and this is honestly scaring me. Literally yesterday I had to call the cops because he threatened to hurt me because I covered the cameras he has in the living room because I feel so uncomfortable. There’s 3 cameras in one common space, he’s absolutely fu***ng bat s**t crazy but that’s a different post. I have a camera in my room but it’s not always on but now I’m going to keep it on 24/7

09/17/2025

Love it
My friend makes it hard sometimes

09/17/2025

Roommate lied about her parents staying with us

For context, I (24f) live in a very desirable state to vacation. My roommate (23f) have lived together for the past 2.5 years and I would say she’s one of my best friends.

However, her family has been overstaying their welcome in our 2 bedroom, 1 bath, 500 sq ft apt. We have 2 dogs and a cat and my roommates bf practically lives with us too.

Her family was supposed to get an air b n b or a hotel from the beginning and they simply have not booked anything. They’ve already been staying with us for 4 days and I’m at my wits ends. Roommate is being very inconsiderate and not seeing my perspective. Instead, she tries to make me feel guilty about their finances, when in my opinion they shouldn’t be traveling if they can’t afford it. Am I being crazy?

09/17/2025

Roommate admitted to my gf that he had feelings, and now I’m single

As I know my roommate recently downloaded reddit, I’m going to hold back from sharing every little detail.

(Everyone in this story is in college btw)

Recently during my spring break my girlfriend started to act really weirdly toward me, and it seemed like she almost didn’t want to talk with me. Well after 3 years of being with her, I told her that I could tell something was off and we needed to talk about it. So eventually we met up and I confronted her about avoiding me and hiding things. That is where she admitted to having spent all of that time with my roommate. I considered him to be one of my best friends at this point, and I really didn’t want to believe what was being told to me. I asked her if she had developed a romantic interest for him, and she told me that she had. The worst part of it all though? He had admitted his feelings for her as well, and they were hanging out even after the point. I asked her if she would stop talking to him if we continued to date, and she said no. So now not only did I break up with my girlfriend of 3 years, I have to continue to live with this guy for the rest of this year. We also signed a lease together for next year, but I’m in the process of figuring out how to get out of that currently. I would rather cut those people out of my life than continue to hangout with them, but being in this situation showed me how much I truly got a bad roommate. It just has all felt like a dark humor rom com at this point.

I really do appreciate all of the support that I have received from people. I just happened to stumble across this subreddit and decided to share what my roommate had done to me, and I never expected for there to be this much attention to it. I will post an update once I figure things out. Thanks again!

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